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shadoeme

52 M Caledon, Ontario, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jun 12
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Virgo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Married
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I am in a long-term, committed, open and honest relationship with my partner of over 35 years (yes, High School Sweethearts). Over the last 15 years or so, we have also (selectively) related to other partners in various long term, loving relationship constellations (polyamory) - sometimes separately, sometimes together, but always openly and honestly with each other - and done the very deep human work that goes along with loving more than one. It has been an enlivening and life-altering adventure of the soul!

It has demanded of us a willingness to explore un-common degrees of self-awareness and be open to discovery - about ourselves, others, and this energy that can sprout between humans. It inspires an unparalleled exploration of the human condition that I can't imagine having in any other domain - learning authenticity, transparency, humility, respect, and gratitude for this human capacity to profoundly love each other.

If living and loving a genuine human experience piques your interest, curiosity, and - most importantly - your heart, mind, perhaps you could jot a quick note. You will meet very genuine, open humans with big hearts and deep respect for you. I love communicating and will openly discuss any aspect of this un-common love style - even if you're just curious and not necessarily sure or interested for intimate relating.
What I’m doing with my life
Loving, discovering, breathing, thinking, meditating, working out, stretching, talking, writing, building, turning pages... not always in that order! Also building a retreat centre near Toronto to host meditation, yoga and other group retreats. Or reading Buddhist philosophy - Chogyam Trungpa's writing has found a lovely resonance in me over the last 10 years or so.
I’m really good at
listening, talking, feeling, thinking, being open, being authentic, showing affection, manners, respect. Seeing the bigger picture. Understanding the whole thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
Hmmm... I have a certain life/sparkle in my eyes that goes along with a curious intellect. I think that is pretty noticeable. I have a very balanced energy, which many people note, and I'm generous with my energy. Also, I'm pretty open and will talk about anything - but I do blush (leftover from a well-mannered, traditional up-bringing!). I'm really polite and hold open doors for people too!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
So much to put in here...

Books: My book shelf is mostly filled with buddhist philosophy and others such as A New Earth - Tolle, Cutting Through Spiritual Materialism - Trungpa, The Mastery of Love - Ruiz

Movies: Most romantic comedies, good drama, good documentaries, good stories, occasional adventure/thrillers (if they have good stories!)... NOT horror... I don't see the point of going to that!.

Music: Brushfire Fairytales - Jack Johnson, Goldberg Variations - Glen Gould/Bach, anything - Deva Premal, One Fine Day - Elizabeth Rogers, so many other things! Really like music alot!

Food: Good simple food where you can taste the original ingredients! Creative combinations and flavours. I get excited by really good food! I'd love for someone to help me eat better! More vegetarian. More anti-oxidants. More water.
The six things I could never do without
True vulnerable openness, Love, companionship to share the journey, conversation, nature, maple-walnut ice-cream, and long, slow, lingering kisses. Oh, and really loving, relaxed, un-hurried physical intimacy.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
The nature of human experience, love, truth, acceptance, designing and coordinating a new retreat centre (yeah, that was not planned... it just happened!). I also spend a lot of time thinking about all the others out there who are also looking for deep human connection - in whatever form that arises for them. Also, how to co-create something with purpose on this earth!
On a typical Friday night I am
Likely home with family; but could also occasionally be out dancing 5 Rhythms or Contact Improvisation, meeting a friend for dinner and conversation, settling into the cottage and an open fire, or going on an internet exploration into some thread or other - usually to do with humans, the environment, spirituality, Buddhist philosophy, tantra, sacred sexuality - or just letting go to a great massage! Lately, out plowing snow at the retreat centre!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I have nothing to "admit". I'll just tell you anything you want to know, hoping your desire to know comes from your motivation for love, openness and acceptance - and not from judgement and fear.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 30–60
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You want to try something completely open, authentic, human and loving... in whatever way that comes up for you... romantic or not is fine, as long as it's authentic (!).