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shadowedlight

24 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Windham, New Hampshire

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 2" (1.87m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English

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I am Honest, Funny, and a Geek.

My Self-Summary

Well first off I'm not interested in any kind of internet relationship. If your afraid of meeting someone offline then keep on browsing.

I'm not on any kind of messenger very often, and e-mails really aren't the best way to meet someone. You can't really know me until you see how I hold myself, the way I talk, the chemistry that is needed between two people. I'm cool for getting to know you a little bit online so that we are comfortable enough to understand one another, and to make sure one of us isn't a serial killer. After that though we need to start getting to know more than how well we can type.

So then, why am I trying to find a date online? Well I happen to use technology a lot in my artwork as well as for entertainment and news so its a natural spot for me to try and stake a claim in. Also I don't go to bars, sports games, clubs, or singles night at the library so my options to meet someone with some common interests who are also single aren't as many as I'd like.

To be honest I don't send out many messages anymore, so if I view you but fail to message you, it doesn't mean I'm not interested. I'm rather old fashioned when it comes to writing, and I'm a poet so its difficult for me to just write something simple with out elaborating and using punctuation and forming paragraphs and for some reason that scares women. Why? You got me.

I'm a Buddhist mostly for the philosophy and practice of being a good person and staying calm, looking forward and making decisions I wont regret. Stuff that you could do with out being a Buddhist but that's where I found it first and I like some of the other stuff too thank you.

I'm a full time fine art student with a year and a half left to go, then moving onto my masters so I can be a professor and work on my own pieces. Its a plan, and I'm happy that I have one. Not everyone can say the same and I am fortunate I have found a calling.

So you've read up to here, the first chapter. There's a lot more to go, you still interested?

Other things I enjoy: My motorcycle, poetry, philosophy, computers, music, spiritual endeavors, Sushi, Japanese food, solving problems, honey mead and plum wine, statues and masks, reading something, debating, good conversation, tea.

What I’m doing with my life

Currently I am an art student. I'm majoring in photography and going for my masters so I can teach at college level while getting my name and art out there. I'm interested in going further with mixed media sculpture as well as sterophotography so I can get into the 3d imaging business.

I’m really good at

Photography, art, crafting props and odd sculptures. I have the capactiy to be good at pretty much anything if I put my mind to it. Except math and memorizing dates, that will never happen. Video games

The first things people usually notice about me

My goatee or my bald head. Its interesting to watch someones eyes meet below and above my eye level before looking me in the eye. I know how you feel ladies!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Star Wars, Eternal Sunshine, Pulp Fiction, 300, Animatrix, Garden State, Donnie Darko Butterfly effect Moulin Rouge Cloverfield American Psycho

Progressive Rock, Techno, Classical, Alternative, Metal anything that is good. Except rap (hip hop is ok) or country (blue grass doesn't count).

Japanese, Italian, American, Chinese, Indian, Thai.

The six things I could never do without

Willpower, Myself, Motivation, Art, Philosophy, Love.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What ever it is I'm currently engaged in. Living in the moment.

On a typical Friday night I am

Friends, games, movies, food, whatever.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I really enjoy silence instead of constantly listening to music all day.

You should message me if

You want someone you can trust

You are in the anti drama club

You can bring a good conversation to the table. Its not fun writing 6 paragraphs only to have someone respond with 3 words for each one.

You want to find someone to meet and enjoy their company so you can really get to know them.