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shadowsleep

32 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:10am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Other
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Speaks
English, German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Sort of the point of this thing is to be candid, right? Here are some pros and cons about me from my own heavily biased perspective:

Possible Pros:
Does like the arts
Doesn't like sports
Well-read
Intelligent
Cynical(?)

Definite Cons:
Slight case of dipsomania
Sometimes pretentious
Cynical

Still reading? Maybe I was too candid.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Lately I've been writing, taking a video editing class and embarking on different projects for my own edification.

When I'm not doing that I work full time as a Web developer at an environmental nonprofit.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Finding mistakes. Spelling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This question is a trap for narcissists.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too many to list in every category but a sampling I guess is appropriate:

Books:

Perennial favorites: Kerouac, Hemingway, Poe, Baudelaire, Nietzsche, Camus, Chandler, Carver, Cain

Is it boring and obvious to say the immortal bard? Well, I will anyway.

Recently: Paul Bowles - The Sheltering Sky, John Fowles - The Magus, Cormac McCarthy - The Road, Flannery O'Connor - A Good Man Is Hard to Find, Hermann Hesse - Steppenwolf

Shows: Twin Peaks, Dexter, Game of Thrones, Sons of Anarchy, Six Feet Under, Mad Men, The Walking Dead

I don't watch sitcoms but...I really like Frasier

Music: The Moz (now, today, tomorrow, and always), Depeche Mode, The Cure, Bauhaus, Joy Division, New Order, Tears for Fears, The Psychedelic Furs, Echo and the Bunnymen, Jesus and Mary Chain, Sisters of Mercy, Queens of the Stone Age, Danzig, Rammstein, Skinny Puppy, NIN, Austra, Crystal Castles, Siouxsie, The Strokes, Chris Isaak, Dion and the Belmonts, Catherine Wheel, John Maus, Stooges, New York Dolls, Misfits, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Arctic Monkeys, The Soft Moon, Tamaryn, Raveonettes, Ladytron, The Drums, Holograms

Movies: Too many. Just ask me about it.

Here are some other things I like:

Graveyards
German Expressionism
Memento Mori
Schadenfreude
Marquis de Sade
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Coffee, Bourbon, Wine, Breakfast, '80s Music, A Good Book
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
"When I'm lying in my bed I think about life and I think about death and neither one particularly appeals to me."

If you know who said this, I would like to hear from you.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
At BAM for a show, at a concert, watching a concert DVD (usually Depeche Mode, The Cure, or Morrissey) or at a horror/midnight cult movie with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I shot a man in Reno, just to watch him die.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're a literary libertine with a taste for the macabre.

Or, if you want to.