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shadypinesma

26 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Everybody
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Sign
Education
Working on masters program
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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i'd like to think i'm a good listener.

they/their. feeling/presenting androgynous but also aware that what that's supposed to mean and look like is highly classed, racialized, cis-centric, etc

at the moment, casually looking for casual dates (i keep myself busy). i mainly go for other genderqueer & trans people, but my only hard line is w straight men bc come on.

i am attracted to masculinity but also highly suspicious of it.
What I’m doing with my life
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writing. biking. moisturizing. trying to become more capable. have been femmeducating myself for ~reasons~ and let me tell you, makeup is hard
/meSSy butch queen/
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
reading in bed & developing hypotheticals
wooing cats
eyebrows
choose yr own ending: power bottom or service top (?)
The first things people usually notice about me
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HUGE HANDS & LIMP WRISTS
shy, earnest, and clumsy
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
bedstand: giovanni's room, uzumaki
downloads: the piano teacher, every arnold schwarzenegger movie
ipod: DAIBURGER, hibari misora, whitney houston. (i'm taking it for granted that everyone puts Kendrick here.)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
cats, naps, catnaps
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
body politics, pain, gender, failure, sex work, kink, The Narrative, literature, the state of my nails, butts
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
home pedis, doing squats, mixing myself a whiskey & ginger
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i only get a second wind on my run if one direction comes on shuffle
You should message me if
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you don't want to argue about the validity of pronouns, trans bodies, sex workers, or cats

you don't mind me asking you to coffee bc i lack creativity and i just like drinking coffee in a cafe atmosphere sue me

soft butch for same/all/every. hard BUFU.

sexually speaking, i'm primarily searching for daddy dom/mes and creative switches. but (and i can't believe i'm writing this) i could be into the right kind of sub.