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shaftgirl

35 / F / straight / Single

Philadelphia, Pennsylvania

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 2" (1.57m).
Body Type
Thin
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Pets
Languages
English

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I am caring, intriging, and sarcastic.

My Self-Summary

I am a 35yo transplant from New York, and have been in the Philadelphia area for about 4 years. I am a social worker, and feel passionate about my profession! I am here to see if this might be a good avenue to meeting interesting and stimulating individuals! As I get older, I realize that I do want to meet that special someone to learn and grown with and from, to love both intrinsically and extrinsically. I hope that we can chat soon!

What I’m doing with my life

I am continually working on myself, both personally and professionally. I believe that noone ever reaches a state of "perfection" and that we should always be exploring new ideas. Taking responsibility for the things that we would like to change is so important, and I like to surround myself with people who have similar views on life

My job right now, like many others, is challenging right now. But I am in the midst of changing, and I am hopeful that becoming more independent as a therapist will be a great change for me.

The first things people usually notice about me

My glasses! Men seem infatuated with the "librarian" look - but FYI I am not a librarian I am just blind without my glasses!

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I just read Sarah's Key by Tatiana De Rosnay, and this book moved me so much that I have not been able to start another book since I finished this one. It is a must read!

I am a huge lover of movies and music - the Ritz theaters in Philadelphia are my second home-I adore independent and foreign films, and feel like I just get lost in the stories. Music really helps me set my mood-there is a song for every emotion that can be inspirational!

FOOD-where do you want to eat? I love love love exploring new restaurants and cuisines, BYOB's are always a good find.

The six things I could never do without

1) Snapple Peach Ice Tea-I have to have one every morning!
2) my family
3) art, music and cultural exploration
4) continuing education and knowledge
5) sadly, the internet might be a choice YIKES
6) candy-a girl always needs a little sugar!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

improvements that I can make in my life so that I can be internally happy and satisfied.

On a typical Friday night I am

either out to dinner to unwind from the week, or at home, in my pj's watching What Not To Wear and eating pasta! Very relaxing

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have almost forgotten what it is like to be in love........it has been a long time

You should message me if

you are funny, intelligent, sarcastic but know when to NOT use it, have beautiful eyes.....and if you find me interesting and want to get to know me more!