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38 Succasunna, NJ Man


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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 21-45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:50pm
Middle Eastern
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
5' 8" (1.73m)
Body Type
Atheism and laughing about it
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
Has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat), Persian (Somewhat), Other (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Shucks, where to begin? Howdy :) my name is Shahram but my friends call me Shah. I really couldn't think of a catchy catch phrase for my name but I guess you can tell I'm not really one of those morning people which is really odd since I've been told my French toast is awesome. Even by those who can't eat gluten.

So a little about me, I'm Persian.... But I've lived in the US since I was 7 so...I don't have an accent and i don't know how to dance like those cool Persians on TV. But I can and do cook Persian food for my friends.

So I've been at the same company for the last 14 years and have moved up based on my humor and my willingness to say yes to just about anything. Which is good and bad....ended up in Africa twice and lost in the desert once.

Other than being comfortable in the kitchen Im equally comfortable with power tools to keep my place looking nice when things brake due to my cats attempts at remodeling.

For fun I love just hanging out with friends and just having fun conversations about silly things because....8-7 my life is very serious so it feels awesome to unwind. I also hit the gym often to stay healthy and in shape so I can continue doing fun stuff like skydiving and rock climbing and skiing.

I'm a social drinker of "girly" beers and dirty martinis...and though I enjoy cooking I can't tell you what is a good wine and what comes from a box so maybe you can help me with that?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm living a healthy and positive life to the fullest, outdoor fun, city walks, country drives

Trying to avoid dinner parties where I'm the lone single person.... It's just not fun anymore is it?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Taking stellar cellphone photos ....I'll teach you how. It's all about your elbows.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I use the word awesome in new and interesting ways to overcome uncomfortable silences........awesome
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Music: yes

Radio: yes

Food: yes please

TV : yes

Books: no

Movies: yes
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1) My family and amazing friends
2) My cat.
3) My kitchen
4) Coffee
5) Spell check
6) Sunset skydives in the summer with friends are awesome..
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why people are so offended by one misspelled word. No one is perfect and its silly to judge ones character by how one spells you're vs your vs....who cares. It's a slip of the thumb not a slip of a blade.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Depends on my plans for Saturday....
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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In my world there is absolutely unequivocally nothing more desired, sexy and sensual than a strong, educated, career minded and healthy woman....nothing. For a woman that knows what she wants from herself and her career also knows what she wants in life and from her partner...and this level of maturity is for me just the most amazing turn on for me......
You should message me if
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Career minded?

Healthy eating?


Active gym membership?

Ok so this may be too much to look for but...
Not allergic to a long list that limits you to...gluten free bread and water?

No neck tattoos, no chest tattoos, no massive prison type sleeve's a mom thing...

Not randomly angry at people....