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shakad

44 F San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 25
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Afrikaans (Okay), Dutch (Poorly), French (Okay), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I love spontaneity and synchronicity. I think I am a mermaid as I love to be in water. What makes my soul light up and makes me smile; kindness, dogs, kids, what i see through my camera, birds, flowers, ocean, music, movies (foreign), delicious food and wines, landing in foreign lands, feeling love, eye smiles, long bath tubs, fireplaces, photography/art, elders active in the world, integration of science and philosophy, old stones, travel, being with my friends, traveling to new lands.

I believe that truth, understanding, compassion, respect - good chocolate/red wine and fine tunes are the ingredients for a truly joyful existence. I prefer quality over quantity in almost any context. Exercise outdoors is my thing. I am not a major tv watcher but utilize netflix and my local independent video store.

I was raised in South Africa, studied and worked between Europe and US most of my adult life.

I am nurturing, feeling, compassionate, quick, and joyful.
What I’m doing with my life
Continually learning about integrative healing- teas, science of food, somatics, Ayurveda, Traditional Chinese Medicine, Quantum Physics, luna solar twinning, neuro plasticity, human condition, faith, love, compassion, belief, art, perspective....its all so bloody fascinating.

I'm a muse on many levels and somehow have been able to integrate that archtype into my professional path always being led by curiosity and values. Strategy naturally comes, advisory services to many, making change, asking tough questions. In multiple sectors over 2 decades generally related to bettering the human and natural condition. Sustainability, healthcare and education seem to be the themes in USA, EU and developing markets and then a few art/technology fun things too!

Fun: Any travel, water related play (sail, swim, paddle), kids, gardening. Socializing with any culture or age group. Playing in nature, living it up in any style. Being a friend, giving to people and the world....

Continuing teaching myself guitar, growing the extent of a meager food garden and writing.
I’m really good at
Wow- humility?

I can knit a warm sweater and it looks pro ( have not made one in about 10 years), cook a great soup and other food groups. I have a gigantic music collection - so can make a mean playlist! I fold laundry perfectly if its still warm.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am an alien...

Legal one! now with two passports and would love a third!
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
wow lumping so many senses into one box..... many across multiple
ears, styles, topics and adventures. Generally impeccably written.
Take me away on an escape. Love in the time of Cholera, Eat love
pray; Alchemist, Anatomy of Desire, Pema Chodron, Thich Nhat Hanh,
The god of Small things, many great classics. Flicks: in The Diving
Bell and the Butterfly, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind and
Lost in Translation, As it is in Heaven, Real Dirt on Farmer John,
Into the Wild, the lives of others, Station Agents, Il Postino,
Throw down your heart ( Bella Fleck in Africa), Vicky Christina
Barcelona, Juno Music Range: David Byrne, steel pulse, toots, Peter
Gabriel, Beth Orten, Jeff Buckley, Ella, Coletrane, Miles, Gabin,
Mingus, bossa nova (jaco P. etc) marley, Franti, Mkeba, most
classical, Krishna Das, Chemical Brothers, most mushroom jazz, 1
giant leap, Zakir Hussein, Vusi...... Food: all that i am not
allergic to. Hot spicy is a challenge to my pallet. Prefer clean,
well prepped and organic or happily raised but if have to will eat
street food when on the road. I love to dine on white table cloths
or funkee eclectic dingy spots...its about the food, service and
atmosphere and memory.
The six things I could never do without
water (and teas), camera(s), body, magic carpet, laughter, music, lap top.......ummm more real huh?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
many a splendid thing...
On a typical Friday night I am
playing in some shape or form - sometimes its a calm night as the week is closing. Dinner for friends or dine out. A movie or music.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 35–58
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are available on many levels, kind, value truth and have a worldly appreciation, and are downright good human to know : )