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shalarae

23 / F / straight / Seeing someone

Wichita, Kansas

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Banking / Financial / Real Estate
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Pets
Languages
English, Spanish (Poorly)

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I am Independent, Bitchy, and Flirty.

My Self-Summary

I'm a 22 year old woman from Wichita, KS. I work full time at a Credit Union and I love my job. I was in a serious relationship and was planning to get married, but we had different goals and values so it didn't work. He broke my heart, but shortly after we broke up I started hanging out with a friend from church and since we've been dating I'm starting to think that he is the kind of guy that I've been waiting for. He has the same morals, he's a hard worker, and he is saving himself for marriage just like I am. So right now I'm in a happy relationship and I'm only interested in friends.

What I’m doing with my life

My goal right now is to finish my business management degree and maybe move up into banking management. Of course I would also love to get married and be a working mom.

I’m really good at

Dating losers, but I think I'm growing out of that.

The first things people usually notice about me

I'm kinda tall. Some guys are intimidated by it, but some think it's sexy.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

1. I don't like to read, I always fall asleep. 2. I guess my favorite movie would have to be "Never Been Kissed". I'll watch pretty much anything though except porno cuz that's just not my thing. 3. I like Rap and Pop, you know, whatever's on the radio. I do really like Christian Rock though too. 4. My favorite food is homemade mac and cheese...o yah.

The six things I could never do without

1. God. 2. My beautiful car. 3. My cell phone, I go crazy without it. 4. The internet...if i'm not at work, I have to be online. 5. My sis and her adorable kids. 6. My friends that put up with all of my crap

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Sex...but that's just because I'm a virgin and waiting to have sex until I'm married, so it's kinda hard to NOT think about sex.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting around my house, drink a little bit and watch a chick flick by myself and fall a sleep on my futon.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I have a problem with either sabotaging a relationship or holding onto a failed relationship. I have had a long record of dating guys for 1 month and then just breaking up with them for some stupid reason. Then when I finally give a guy a chance, it's the wrong guy and I don't want to admit that we're wrong for each other so I hold on longer than i should and then i get hurt in the end.

You should message me if

You aren't looking for anything sexual because I'm not a cheater and plus I'm waiting to have sex til I'm married and that's not negotiable.