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shamcakes

42 / F / Straight / Single

Kingwood, Texas

Her Details

Last Online
Today – 6:42am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs and dislikes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
Honestly, trying to connect with someone through a self-summary is very difficult....meeting and experiencing the whole "package" in person counts alot rather than just reading the "label".....so, with that said.....
What I want and am looking for is a loving and compassionate partner whom I can communicate openly and intimately with.....He would be honest, confident without being cocky, comfortable in his skin, intelligent, very witty and able to laugh at himself and out loud, honesty is paramount....along w/kindness, able to feel empathy....again, compassionate, romantic and able to give generously without "terms" attached.....
Me? Well.....I love to laugh and act silly....I have a quick wit and can be quite "impish"....I can seem pre-occupied at times, so would need someone who's not overly sensitive and very confident......I love music, dancing, reading, cooking for friends and family, holidays, decorating/antiquing and traveling.....I love to be spontaneous at times and enjoy adventure.....I am a very sensual person and confident giving lots of affection towards my partner....but not anything inappropriate in public....I relish the outdoors and enjoy being active.....I adore children and they adore me....but do not have any of my own.....I have 2 small dogs that I consider like children. I love all animals, not quite a cat fan. People would describe my personality as dynamic and very open......full of life!
I’m really good at
Making people feel warm and welcome, along w/making them laugh, taking care of myself physically and emotionally, cooking, interior decorating, not taking myself too seriously, eek..shopping, organizing, etc, etc....
The six things I could never do without
Family, dogs, kissing, books, lip gloss (I'm addicted), sunshine, chocolate.... And to make me give six is really not fair.....
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Let's have this conversation later.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Hmmm....usually on the couch snuggling with my two dogs or spending time with friends/family.......
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
If I shared it, it would no longer be private! But once I get to know you, I'm an open book!
I’m looking for
  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 40–53
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
You love to laugh and have a good time....are intelligent...like to be an active participant in life.....don't think a woman should look like a Barbie doll.....are NOT jealous....available for intimate conversations.....are not afraid to cry.....love (my) dogs.....is not going to tell me I have too many pairs of shoes.....likes a woman to be confident and secure and doesn't think those two qualities constitutes "a Bitch".....you don't mind a quirky sense of humor......etc, etc.....