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shance_chance

24 / F / bisexual / Single

Ottawa, Ontario, Canada

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Gemini and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Kids
Dislikes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently)

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I am cute, unusual, and quiet.

My Self-Summary

These words have been used to describe me:
"weird", "cute", "funny", "brilliant", "odd", "on-the-ball", "sweet", "nice", "dramatic", "bright", "creative", "complex" "curious", "unique", "quiet" "kinky"...

When I think about it, I'm a combination of those things and more.

What I’m doing with my life

Figuring out what I want to do with my life. I am taking random courses both in and out of college.

I’m really good at

Making chocolate-chip cookies. Mine are the best. The end.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Religion and the origins of the universe, and the differences between life and non-life. My beliefs would be considered "New Age". I identify as "agnostic" because I acknowledge that I could be very wrong. I believe what makes sense to me, and because we all see the world differently, it's understandable that we do not believe the same things. I do not have a problem with anyone's beliefs, provided they do not use them as a reason to be bigoted and/or ignorant.

Gender and sexuality. I am a pro-porn feminist. I am interested in taboo fetishes and paraphilia. One life goal of mine is to publish a book on taboo fetishes and sexual interests.
Also, despite my profile saying I am bisexual, I am more accurately described as "pansexual".

Conventions, fandom and costuming. Because I am quiet and have trouble finding people similar to myself, conventions are a major source of new friendships and relationships for me.

Writing, both original fiction and fanfiction. In terms of original fiction, I am working on four novels (very slowly, but surely).

I have an interest in a topic which may disturb a lot of people: serial killers and mass murders in schools and workplaces. I do not support the actions of the people who commit these crimes. I'm more interested in the psychology of these people, where they come from, and what makes them "tick".

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I like a lot of the 90s pop which most people hate. Yes, the stuff 12-year-olds listened to back in the day.

You should message me if

-I don't scare you.
-You and I have a frighteningly high match percentage.
-You do not mind an adult who will never give up watching cartoons.
-You are an adult who also watches cartoons.
-You do not mind an adult who still collects stuffed animals and keeps stuffed animals on her bed.
-You are not someone who will tell me to change my appearance because I'm not "good enough" for you. I am a chubby girl, and if I decide to lose weight, it's for my sake and not what someone else says.
-You will accept that I will never have any interest in trying alcohol, and you are not of the opinion that my lack of interest in trying it makes me "boring", "weak", "a loser" or "unable to have a good time".
-You do not believe drugs or alcohol are necessary to be happy or to appreciate beautiful things. They can give you a different way of seeing things, but they aren't a necessity.
-You can deal with the fact that I do not know where I am going in life.
-You do not mind the fact that I can be very socially awkward. I am diagnosed with Asperger's syndrome. Although I am learning skills and improving, this must always be kept in mind.