Call me a hopeless romantic but I am looking for that uncontrollable feeling that makes me smile when I see my partner. I am looking for someone who gives me butterflies in my stomach in anticipation of seeing them. (is that too much to ask?)
If you were to ask my friends about me they would tell you that I am always a great time. That I may be goofy sometimes but we are going to have a great time. That applies if I am working out, working or hanging out.
Side note, our company went Agile (management style of self organized groups built around metrics instead of top down hierarchy) and one of the mottos, "fail quickly". I think that applies to relationships as well. Why hold back, the reality of who we are can't be held in check for long. So put it out there and see what happens.