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sardonic, surreal, and sociable

My self-summary Propose an edit

I value family and community above all other things. I'm socially conscious but not as politically active as I'd like to be. I'm very easy to get along with. I'm a good person to talk to about anything.

I work hard and play hard whenever I can. I sometimes like to get dressed up even though the occasion may not require it. I am very sociable. I love going out and meeting new people. Oddly enough that boldness doesn't come through over the internet. I'm addicted to facebook apps and tower defense games.

I realize the women on this site get a lot of sketchy messages from guys, so i'm not sure if I happen to fall into that category, or if I just get ignored as a precaution. Thing is, I'd rather get a "fuck off" response than no response at all. Anyone who messages me gets a response, and it'll always be nice.

I'm open-minded and non-judgmental. My friend network is very diverse and i'm open to expanding it further. The only people I don't have time for are the narrow-minded.

I am a proud father of two boys (ages 9 and 13). I like to do activities that include them as much as I like to get away for "adult" time. Being that my kids are an important part of my life I would prefer to meet moms or moms at heart.

I hate talking about myself for extended periods of time. I probably haven't said much, but I feel like i'm done. Maybe i'll add more later. Of course, you could always message me...

What I'm doing with my life Propose an edit

Well, let's see... I am maintaining a career and raising my kids, but that is the everyday stuff. For fun I am trying as many hobbies as I can. Currently I am into hiking, skiing, mountain biking, motorcycling, tinkering with cellphones and other gadgets and recently I went crabbing. I am also looking to share what I am doing with someone else.

I'm really good at Propose an edit

- telling offensive, inappropriate jokes
- cooking
- making electronic or mechanical things work
- taking conversations on wierd tangents

The first thing(s) people usually notice about me Propose an edit

People either notice my hair or that I am tall

My favorite books, movies, music, and food Propose an edit

books:
anything Vonnegut, Infinite Jest, American Gods, Schopenhauer's Telescope, Prometheus Rising, Cryptonomicon, Neuromancer

movies:
No Country for Old Men, anything Tarantino, Life Aquatic with Steve Zissou, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Blues Brothers, Pi, Being John Malkovich

music:
Amon Tobin, Aphex Twin, Dwight Yokam, White Stripes, Prodigy, VAST, Notorious BIG, Cannibal Ox, Jane's Addiction, The Fleshtones

food:
Indian, Thai, Ethiopian, Mexican, Italian, Cambodian, Vietnamese

The six things I could never do without Propose an edit

Aside from the obvious:

Friends
Intimacy
Music
Internet
Cell phone
Coffee

Oh wait, judging by every other profile I have seen the above list is now at the base of Maslow's pyramid as well. Here is one that isn't so generic:

Heated seats in my car
A good trail in the woods to hike
Gravity to power my favorite sports of mountain biking and skiing
A new gadget to play with
My hottub
Spicy ethnic take-out of some sort nearby

I spend a lot of time thinking about Propose an edit

How to make my cell phone/mp3 player/whatever gadget I have do things that they weren't supposed to. Seriously I love to hack my gadgets.

On a typical Friday night I am Propose an edit

I live on the eastside and get really bored so I like to go into my neighbor's chicken coop late at night and crow like a rooster just to see if the hens will lay more eggs. I did get the personality award for being "more cocky".

The most private thing I'm willing to admit here Propose an edit

I am polyamorous and currently living with one partner. I would not say that I'm actively looking for other partners as much as I am people to hang out with. I'm open to more than that, but just having someone to spend time with is very good

You should message me if Propose an edit

you would like to learn swing dancing with me
you like to watch live music
you enjoy getting to know people over a meal

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sharingmonkey: 288 questions

Ethnicity
White
Height
6' 3" (1.90m).
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
N/A
Religion
Other
Sign
Sagittarius and it's fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Has children
Pets
Owns dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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