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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 36–50
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Oct 7
6' 2" (1.88m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Has kids and doesn’t want more
My self-summary
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Disclaimer: I am separated, meaning I have been living on my own, and completely apart from my "ex", for 3 years, but have been slow to get a legal divorce because of complications with my teenage daughters. OKC insists that I have to be "married" or "single", but that's black-and-white horsepucky. There is no ambiguity in my life, even though, on paper, it's backwards. I'm dealing with that inconsistency, and soon - eventually - paper and person will align. If my present status is too threatening, however, no hard feelings. It's a zoo in here, and I know there are lots of shrews, rats and venomous snakes (who all claim they're "single", I'm sure.) If you, like me, think my status is more of an open-book technicality than a deal breaker or buzz kill, read on; I like you already, and I assure you, I'm only Human.

About me:

Smart, funny, athletic, outdoorsy, certified class 5 adventurer, loves surfing, sailing, whitewater kayaking, windsurfing, snowboarding, riding a bike, fishing for pike, pounding a spike. Up for any adventure (far-flung urban or wind-blown desert in toga-and-turban). Making, painting, writing, inventing, tinkering, thinkering. Artist, editor, technical director, set erector, marketing vector, anything fixer, vita mixer. Looking to meet you toe to toe with pick and hoe to grow a lasting yin-yang-him-her-shady-canopy-of cool out of thin air, blistering sun, and red dirt. Fun until it hurts. You are smart, playful, athletic, energetic, adventurous, youthful, tuned to the key of humor, with a tough-but-supple hide, and a sweet, loving sensuous side. Where, oh where, do you hide?
What I’m doing with my life
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Breathing in. Breathing out.
I’m really good at
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I'm good at almost everything I set my mind to, but I'm not good at setting my mind to doing just one thing.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I smile and I "get it." I'm pretty intuitive and I usually can tell how you're feeling and I don't have any trouble understanding why.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love the arts, in general. I include food in that category.

My favorite musician: Elvis Costello
My favorite movie: Monsters Inc.
My favorite book: The Elements of Style
My favorite food: Vitello Milanese, that my mother still cooks on my birthday. (I've been moving away from pork and beef, and especially veal. Mom does halibut instead.) My Nonna's apple strudel that I haven't had since she died.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A body of water
My own body moving through it
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, and how to live it well. Why I spend too much time thinking and not enough time living better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Living well. Or thinking about it.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'll tell you anything privately.
You should message me if
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If you think we'd like each other and have fun together, that's a good start.