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53 Scarsdale, NY Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 42-62
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:59pm
5' 3" (1.60m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Post grad
Has kid(s) and doesn’t want more
English (Fluently), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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Recalculating. Funny how what I used to want is no longer what I think I want anymore. Time and perspective change things, especially as I'm about to be an empty nester. If what I'm going for is unclear, who I am is certain. Confident, sharp, kind of intense, intensely kind, pretty funny, maybe pretty, grown up girl. Maybe you've seen me before. I was offline for a year.

I'm a media maven with a killer education and special skills. I'm ambitious and thinking about what's coming next. I am soft and resilient, have experienced love and loss, and keep coming back for more. I'm the one you click on when you're ready to go the next level of self-exploration. When you're ready to be vulnerable, challenged, laugh harder, feel deeper, think sharper, see clearer, feel safer. I'm not for everybody and I'm fine with that. Though my address is what it is, you'd be mistaken to define me by my suburb. I wouldn't even dare to define myself.

I wouldn't even dare to define you either. But I know this much. You're a man who knows that the more he knows, the less he understands. Who cares about the world around him, who exudes empathy, curiousity, humor and confidence.

I'm happy you have a past, and I'll take you as-is... just ask you do the same. We're probably not going to change much from here on out. My long-standing relationships matter to me, including my last relationship and the man I was married to for 18 years. Our children will always connect us.

One last thing. Please don't message me if you're married or in a serious relationship. I realize you may have deep unmet needs and think I'll be the one to fill your gaps. I can't be her. Really.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a TV news exec. A journalist with an MBA. I've lived with money and without, across the US and in faraway places overseas. I've been a mom for more than 19 years. I was never a stay-at-home parent, and respect everyone's choices because it's so much harder than anyone told us it was going to be. And so much more fun and rewarding than I ever could have imagined.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
figuring you out, whether you like it or not. I'm really good at fixing things, whether I like it or not. Ordering food, bouncing back, taking naps, finding humor in everything, especially the inappropriate. Rationalizing, prioritizing, showing up on time, teasing, making people feel comfortable, understood and valued.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my hair, my skin. Really. They say I don't look my age. They tell me I should lie on these things, because I don't look or act my age. Well, I'm proud of where I am and how I look after getting here. I have a presence. I don't know this because people tell me; I just know it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I should read more. Majored in English and History. Just bought a great book about Habits, but unfortuately left it on the plane. That's not typical though, just ironic. I do a ton of reading though. nyt, wapo, gawker, huffpo, social media feeds and the things they link to...

Movies: I'm behind. Enjoy broad range but horror and sci-fi less than others. Indies and foreign a lot. Gravitate toward something that helps/makes me feel something, even if it's deep laughter like Airplane or Animal House. Can watch big musicals like Sound of Music over and over again and Annie Hall would make the top five DVDs I'd take on a desert island.

Shows: Ray Donovan, Masters of Sex, Homeland, Empire, SportsCenter, CBS This Morning, SNL, Last Week Tonight, Inside Amy Schumer. Not a big reality fan, CNN is the default.

Music: except for some rap, country and heavy metal, I'll listen to anything and love being exposed to new material. My go-to is classic rock, singer-songwriters and the best of jazz and blues.

Food: yes. Love to dine or dive and keep you company or clean up while you cook.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I love stuff as much as the next person, and I'd like to think I could live without most of it. Not that I'd want to, but that I could.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be more effective. What I'm going to have for lunch. Sex. If there's anything good on tv. Is there a new app I have to have? Is it ok I don't worry about my kids more. I know they're going to be fine. How happy I am to be back in NY after so many years in the diaspora. I enjoyed the diaspora. It makes me who I am today, and I'm feeling like I'm home again, even though I think about "what is home?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
often working. No big deal.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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is that I will admit to some very private things. I'm actually very open and I'm told that's one of the things that makes me exciting. You can decide.
You should message me if
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You like my look, you like my attitude and think you're the kind of guy who would do it for me too. If you want me to respond, you're going to need to do better than ask how my day is going, send me a cut-and-paste that you've sent to a hundred other women, or ask me if I date younger/older/married men (no to married) Ok cupid?