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52 F Scarsdale, NY

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 38–61
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:58pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Gemini, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Has kids, but doesn’t want more
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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Can you reduce yourself to seven words? Someone asked me that recently during a chat session. I wrote: Smart, honest, sexy, intense, sweet, funny mother. For people who don't like the prose, skip to the pics or questions and don't be critical of what follows. For the rest of you, here we go.

I'm a media maven with a killer education and special skills. I'm ambitious and nowhere near ready to call it quits. I am soft and resilient, have experienced love and loss, and keep coming back for more. I'm the one you click on when you're ready to go the next level of self-exploration. When you're ready to be vulnerable, challenged, laugh harder, feel deeper, think sharper, see clearer, feel safer. I'm not for everybody and I'm fine with that. My two teenaged daughters live with me, and I still have a private life. Though my address is what it is, you'd be mistaken to define me by my suburb. I wouldn't even dare to define myself.

I'm looking for a manly man who knows what he wants. Who has tastes and passions, who knows that the more he knows, the less he understands. A man who makes me laugh, doesn't get scared if I cry and gets that if things work out, there should be room in our relationship for all our friends, our families, us and ourselves.

What happens in the world around us matters to me. You read the whole newspaper (or its digital form) and you're fine talking about anything in there. I'm happy you have a past, and I'll take you as-is... just ask you do the same. We're probably not going to change much from here on out.

I get pleasure from yours, and if you bring me pleasure, I promise you'll feel it too. Your random acts of kindness toward me and others will be appreciated and rewarded in ways you can never imagine.

My long-standing relationships matter to me, including the man I was married to for 18 years. Our children will always connect us and being friends is easier, natural and no threat.

If I like you, I will figure out quickly how to make you laugh. If you do the same for me, we will have a very good time together. I also want someone who likes to think, be silly, and know when it's time to be quiet.
What I’m doing with my life
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I am a TV news exec. I've always worked, and I've been a mom for almost 18 years. I'm so not an at-home mom, and I bow in reverence to all parents. It's much harder than anyone told us it was going to be. And much more rewarding than I ever could have imagined.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
figuring you out, whether you like it or not. I'm really good at fixing things, whether I like it or not. Ordering food, bouncing back, taking naps, finding humor in everything, especially the inappropriate. Rationalizing, prioritizing, showing up on time, teasing, making people feel comfortable, understood and valued.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My eyes, my hair, my skin. Really. They say I don't look my age. They tell me I should lie on these things, because I don't look or act my age. Well, I'm proud of where I am and how I look after getting here. I have a presence. I don't know this because people tell me; I just know it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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TV is always first for me. Masters of Sex. Ray Donovan. Mad Men will return for half a season. House of Cards. Wish late night comedy wasn't so late at night. Inside Amy Schumer is my new guilty pleasure. Veep. Nurse Jackie. Happy HBO's The Newsroom will get a third season. Very inside Sharon. New SNLs. Old SNLs. And way too much news.

Movies: don't get to as many as I want to, but my life has been in a huge wave of transition and getting to the theatre is just never as easy as it should be. I'm one of those people who can go to the movies by myself, and often it's the easiest way to see what I want to see when I want to see it. That being said, holding hands and kicking someone's legs while I recross mine is one of life's perfect pleasures.

Favorites are those that helped me think and feel or get me through a long afternoon, like Sound of Music. Life is Beautiful, Airplane, Stripes, Broadcast News, Lost in Translation, Rear Window, Some Like it Hot, Hair, Crash. I've never walked out of a movie. But I've taken some naps.

Bookmarks: nyt, wsj, wapo, reddit, buzzfeed, business insider, espn, gawker, deadspin, mediabistro, huffpo, dailybeast, nypost, linkedin, facebook, twitter, and for now, okc.

Books: My profs would be delighted to know I'm still referencing my business school texts. Use it or lose it. Shantaram is the longest book I ever read, and I hope it makes it to the big screen at some point. Love everything Jon Krakauer writes. These days I favor the long form journalists who write books. Tom Friedman, Malcolm Gladwell. I've read a lot and if you're someone who needs to be with someone who's always reading, I'm probably not the person for you. But I'll leave you alone to read while I'm on the computer or in the other room watching tv.

Music: classic rock. Vampire Weekend is my new New Music crush. I don't know the names of the songs my kids play but I like a lot of it. Most of my music these days comes in the form of Pandora mashups and I have Zeppelin, Clapton, JT, van Morrison and Grateful Dead cds in my car.

Food: seriously? I like my meat rare, and respect everyone's choice to eat what they prefer. I enjoy all kinds of ethnic food, clean better than I cook, can't do super spicy and when it comes to alcohol, I'm one and done.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I love stuff as much as the next person, and I'd like to think I could live without most of it. Not that I'd want to, but that I could.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be more effective. What I'm going to have for lunch. Sex. If there's anything good on tv. Is there a new app I have to have? Is it ok I don't worry about my kids more. I know they're going to be fine. How happy I am to be back in NY after so many years in the diaspora. I enjoyed the diaspora. It makes me who I am today, and I'm feeling like I'm home again, even though I think about "what is home?"
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
game. At least I like to think I am.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Check out my answers. If that's not enough, you'll have to actually message me to find out more.
You should message me if
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You like my look, you like my attitude and think you're the kind of guy who would do it for me too. If you want me to respond, you're going to need to do better than ask how my day is going, send me a cut-and-paste that you've sent to a hundred other women, or ask me if I date younger/older/married men (no to married) Ok cupid?