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27 Astoria, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 21–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 7:07am
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Agnosticism, and somewhat serious about it
Virgo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t want kids
Likes cats

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Non-monogamous / polyamorous guy currently interested in dating people and perhaps building open relationships with the right people. I put this front and center on my profile because I value honesty and respect people's time. If you are looking for a soul mate to give you a sense of identity or your other half, please move on. I would like you to already have your own passions, career, hobbies, and possibly even other lovers. If you think we could click, then hopefully we can find sometime out of our already busy and interesting lives to occasionally meet up and share each others company.

The kind of guy I am: I love to exercise (I am a personal trainer). I like to do nerdy things like video games and board-games (the more complicated the better). I am low maintenance and easy to entertain. Learning how to cook wholesome meals. LBGTQP... ally and feminist. Sex positive. I always make sure there is time to talk about where the relationship is at and where we both agree we want it to go. I know some women like it when men always are the first ones to make a move, sorry to kill the excitement, but I talk about what you want first rather than making my own assumptions. I like it when someone tells me what they want, because then I can spend less time guessing and more time pleasing ;P

The women I am attracted to are: independent, non-possessive, smart, creative, open minded, different, cuddly, honest with how they feel and what they want (who likes guessing games?), healthy body mind and spirit, and able to take a break from work and sit down to do something dorky. I am not really attracted to Barbies. If you are a very unique person, honest with yourself and others, I will probably get a crush on you in no time hahahaha.

Sexual health and responsibility are very important to me. I can show you my most recent "report card" if needed, and in an ideal world, you could too, or at least feel comfortable talking about your typical practices of "behavior on the playground". I am disease free and I work hard to stay that way.
Any of your partners need to be ok with you seeing me. In this kind of mature relationship style, honesty and consent are a must!!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
NSCA Strength and Conditioning Specialist.
Personal Training.
Group Exercise.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Board Games.

Zombie Survival.

Video Games!


Not getting jealous.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I look young for my age, and even more so when I shave. Yea I got a baby face. I hope it comes in handy when I am an old man haha

Goofy smile and giggle. Lots of energy. Unless I am feeling particularly shy or quiet, that tends to happen if I think you're really cute and then I get the flutters.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Cosmos a Spacetime Odyssey

The Ethical Slut, Opening Up, Walking Dead, Zombie survival guide, some sci fi stories, and some cook books on bacon haha

I like movies that make you think or that are kinda nerdy or really epic.

I like all music but not all songs, I usually only like instrumentals so that I can have it as background sound as I do other things.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Outlook Calendar
Video Games
My Mind
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.

Philosophy and talking shit about universal morality. And debating things out in my mind.

Where my food came from.

Warhammer 40k and other nerdy things. tee hee
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
open relationship
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Intelligence is very sexy! But please don't put S.A.T words like penchant, quixotic, bibliophile, in your profile. You could easily replace those words with, strong habit, impractical, book lover. You're trying too hard, and that is not sexy. Besides OK Cupid profiles, no one really uses those words and you know it. Sigh... Ok rant done!
You should message me if
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You are poly, or some form of non-monogamy, or at least comfortable and experienced with dating someone who is.

If you are not flaky and have initiative about when you want to meet up next. I am not really interested in pen pals who message but never meet. Use this site to find people then go meet them!

If you are mature, a good communicator, non-possessive, honest, and kind.

If we hit it off. I would like hang out on average as much as once a week, no less than once a month. If that level of commitment sounds about right for you at this point in time, lets meet up!

Or if you want to chill and watch movies or play some friendly video games! New platonic friends are always welcome.