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shawnabear13

19 / F / straight / Single

San Luis Obispo, California

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 7" (1.70m).
Body Type
Average
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Judaism but not too serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am at, Cal Poly, and loving it.

My Self-Summary

I'm a fun loving girl looking for a guy who can make me laugh. I enjoy any activity that gets my heart pumping, but i can also go for a quiet night in and a good movie. I love roller coasters and hope to go bungee jumping before my body will hate me for it.

Oh, and I don't have a car. Yeah. It sucks.

What I’m doing with my life

I just moved to Marina Del Rey June 2008 from Atlanta, GA. I started college September 2008 at Cal Poly San Luis Obispo, majoring in Civil Engineering. I absolutely love it there and don't think I'll ever want to leave. I plan to achieve a Bachlors Degree, and maybe a Masters. I'll see what happens. I live in SLO during the year.

I’m really good at

I really good as reading people's body language and noticing little things about someone. Sometimes that just makes them self conscious, but what can I do. I sing and play cello at school (and whenever I can) and I also entertain a very rusty talent on Piano. I love skiing and wish I could go more often. My favorite place to ski is Tahoe or Utah. I'm also good with animals, and love horseback riding. One of my favorite places in the world is on this ranch in the middle of nowhere Arizona where we go to ride horses along the gorgeous trails in the mountains. I also just started doing Swing and Blues dancing and really like it. I also do a bit of Salsa. I would like to learn the Tango and Vienese Waltz.

The first things people usually notice about me

People notice my green eyes, and if i'm wearing it down, my long brown hair. They also notice my friendliness and comedic sarcasm. I am very outgoing. Also, people notice my infectious laugh.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Way too many to name! Most recent: The Black Jewels Trilogy- Anne Bishop, Stephen King, the Ender Books, Twilight Saga, Kushiel Legacy, Anne Rice. I alot of books!
Music: I have a really large taste in music. Linkin Park, Hollywood Undead, Papa Roach are a couple of the favorites. Alternative, Rock, Classic Rock, a little Metal, Ska, Country, Pop, Techno/Trance, tons of stuff. Very little Rap. I also love Musicals
Food: Chinese is my favorite and I love SUSHI! And I love my mothers cooking. I like alot of food, it would be better to say what I DON'T like: oysters, calamari, and weird fruits. I'm cooking alot more this year and doing pretty well so far. I don't like eating out very often, and would enjoy a healthy meal more than something that tastes like a heart attack.

The six things I could never do without

Phone, Internets, Music (= LIFE), a good book to read, my close friends, sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Random things that pop into my head. Read my journal and you'll see... I haven't posted lately though. Sorry about that.

I think about what to post in my profile alot actually... here's some stuff that doesn't really fit anywhere else:

I'm not actively looking for a relationship, but really more people to hang out with. If after being friends for a little while we decide to date, great. If not, then friends it is. I don't believe that any relationship can be healthy without having friendship in it. Because if you can't be friends, you can't have that communication that is needed in a relationship.

On a typical Friday night I am

Sitting in the apartment with the roommies or out dancing! Salsa Fridays, Blues Saturdays, and Swing Sunday afternoons. I love to dance, but was never really good at the ballet stuff, so I turn to social dancing and it's the best thing that's happened to me. I love Line dancing too, but I don't get to go often.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I won a chicken at the OC fair July 2009 and it is quite simply the most amazing thing on my desk right now. And I also have a little goldfish that I absolutely adore. His name was "victim", because the other fish was attacking him for a couple days when we first got him, but then the other fish died and I'm contemplating calling him "killer" now. Change of fate.

You should message me if

You want to meet a cool new girl. Who knows, this could be the start of something good.

Please do NOT message me if the other thing your going to say is i'm cute. that is appreciated with more of a message, but not on its own. Also, A message consisting solely of "Hi" will also not get you a response.

If you do not get a response within 3-4 days or a week max, I have deleted your message without responding. Maybe try harder next time. Or don't try.

Also, I usually screen my messages by location. If you start flirting with me and you're really far away, Its not likely that I'm going to respond. If you are more than 5 years older than me, I'm also not likely to respond. And if you just message me looking for sex, again, no response.