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shawnabermender

41 F Brooklyn, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight guys only
  • Ages 30–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:07pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 9″ (1.76m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism
Sign
Scorpio
Education
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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ASKING ALEXANDRIA-http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E0sT7xfC3QY LOVE THIS SONG-SEXY VIDEO
KILLSWITCH ENGAGE MY FAVORITE BAND
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0c9EyIEb6Bg
SAG~AFTRA UNION MODEL/ACTRESS/ PRO DANCER
German,ltalian,French,Mexican, my website link below
http://www.huntingtonactionfilms.com/shawnaindex.html.
Dated NHL Pro Hockey Player Roman Hamrlik,Twilight Movies-Chaske Spencer, Derek Jeter hit on me- i was with my boyfriend at the time. Oh well bad timing,lol,hence it ended anyways.
MY FANS.. WANT SEXY CUSTOM PHOTOS? LET ME KNOW YOUR CREATIVE IDEAS.....
DALLAS COWBOYS AMERICAS TEAM! -my boys-it's in my blood. Born on my moms birthday, born in TEXAS-raised there ,left when i was 17-raised on the DALLAS COWBOYS since i was 4,UFC,2nd division in Softball,hahah my TROPHY.
SOPHIA LOREN THANKS TO ALL WHO COMPARE ME TO HER WHEN SHE WAS YOUNG. l HEAR IT ON MOVIE SETS, MODELING JOBS,ON THE STREET,ETC.
Morals, Values for marriage, if you don't have these please don't bother. Marriage doesn't mean having somebody on the side-girlfriend-boyfriend. Do it right or don't do it all. We call them Vows-for better or for worse in sickness and in health til death do you part. Taking care of your parents is also your job. Even when they get sick and old. You have to balance everything out so everybody is happy.
"A man should make his lover #1 in his life, not last".
"Be A Man" My Father Say's. Expecting a women to go 50/50 on bill's, etc, is not a Man. Get a roomate instead. Looking for old school man who believes in taking care of his lady. Southern men seem to be it, Ny guys i don't think so.

Gladiator-Best Movie, hot music-Hans Zimmer, Spartacus-Best Tv Series,hot music as well,300-this is Sparta!!. My home is decorated the same,lol. As well as some of my clothes. Yes i should have been born in that time. Always trying to update my work,gets busy to even make time to do it,lol.
Gladiator,Spartacus-tv series, god one day i will be in a Epic movie or Tv Series, i can feel it.
AMERICA THE FREE BABY!!!!!!! EXCEPT FOR THE GOVERNMENT,BLAH! music supervisor/cinematographer/writer/singer. lnspired by movies and artists from around the world. l love working with people from all over the world, you learn so much...

Marriage,boyfriends,friends, does anything stay the same for 30--40years? l hope so, someday i can say i have been with this man for 40 years. Say these friends have tested the time with me for 30-40 years. l have a handful of closefriends that i would take a bullet for as well as my family. l hangon to that and there ly's my passion and form long lasting bonds. When that is destroyed a part of my heart is cut. Then we start all over again, and maybe once more feel the pain.
All my boyfreinds had class,my bestfriends,my Father. Live life to the fullest, have no regrets, you never know what happens day to day. Live it like it's your last day on earth. Men and Women what is the point of a workaholic if you don't live life? lt means nothing if you can't balance it with your love life. When all you do is work. The day will come and you will say what was i thinking?Money, Money is all i care about. Men or Women don't care enough to make the time. THE PASSION OF THE CHRIST (MOVIE),ALWAYS MAKES ME WANT TO BE A BETTER PERSON,THE NOTEBOOK(MOVIE), IS THE IDEAL LOVE STORY , THAT IS TRUE LOVE . LET ME IN(MOVIE)version director of cloverfield, A DARK ROMEO AND JULIET, THE BOND IS AMAZING. Men and Women are becoming pathetic in relationships,marriage, they cheat on eachother. People growup , work it out or get out, no excuses. Why stay in a unheathly situation,your kids will know this,sense this...Men please don't be to controlling, where i am not allowed to do my work. A good provider is ideal. This is who i am i'm in the industry, i love my work. l will bend for the one i love, but i do want to work at least partime. Men have a hardtime with my work, can't deal with it. Sorry i need a secure man in my life. When i love, i love hard and am very loyal. Guys if your a workaholic and work 14 hours a day, 7 days a week and don't believe in spending quality time with your lady, keep movin...not interested..
What I’m doing with my life
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Working with people like Philip Seymour Hoffman as the role of Becky, in "Jack Goes Boating". l love my life, travel the world, meet people, cultures,food,music. Also dated some famous people along the way. Also checkout Netflix, Deed To Hell,Silver Night, 2 of my films. ..video gamer girl,etc. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaYp9NA73FA,shawnabermender,lynellmodel,the make believers, all on youtube ,entrepreneur......
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
God see's All.. ones who are apart of this system you will get it!!!
USA- has it's issues-Government-Corruption-Greed,Accountability of Coporations,Health Care,Honest Freedom-Support Your People. l don't Vote-it's all bsing in the end. Realizing that living in AMERICA we have it good, but it could be much better. Our FREEDOM is the key to a happy life. l know people from other country's who are struggling in life by means of FREEDOM. Remember people always have it worse off then you do. Count your blessings and try to stay in a zen mode.....:).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Me and my voice when i sing- Daughtry, Creed, Pearl Jam,Metallica,etc. My dancing freestyle moves...Metallica- Kirk's guitar pick he gave me at the Orion festival- yes a fan since they started.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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More intrigued by true events that happened in the world of films that are true stories. All the Bourne movies, The Crow,Fight Club,Gladiator,The Outsiders, Angels with Dirty Faces,Rebel Without a Cause,Street Car Name Desire, so many good movies out there, Comedies are great... Music such bands as Asking Alexandria, Deftones,Alter Bridge,Bring Me The Horizon,Secrets,Nine lnch Nails,Killswitch Engage,Tool,Hatebreed,Mushroomhead, Hinder,Papa Roach,Shinedown,Doro Pesch,Disturbed,30 seconds to mars,for King and Country,Rascal Flatts,Elliot Yamin,Korn,Pantera,Jimmy Eat World,Kings of Leon,Yeah Yeah Yeahs-lt's Blitz-amazing, Wisin & Yandel,Seal,WestSide Family,Adele,Sade,Tori Amos,Tarkan,Eros,U2,Led Zepplin,The Cure,New Order,Pet Shop Boys,Depeche Mode, The Church,The Smiths,Metallica,Rush,ColdplayLovers in Japan-Radio head- hot song- all i need,reckoner, Muse,Adam Lambert, ,Daughtry,Linkin Park,Seether,European-Greek, Albanian,Romanian,Latin,French-Middle eastern,Punk,Metal,Thrash,etc..house-rap-etc.,Classical,Country,Alternative,Soundtracks,New Wave,Anything that moves my heart.....
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
God
Love/Compassion/Sacrafice/Passion
My parents
Bestfriends
My career
Loyalty
The sound of little kids
Animals
The meaning of life
People
Laughing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Religion-The Seperation of people-Muslims,Christians,etc. Breaks my heart..why can't we love all. War,killing,not becoming one as people and as humans. Uniting as one,respect and love goes along way, if only that could be the way.
How we can make this world a better place? People in order to change the world it starts from within you. Breeding hate from generation to generation is NOT the answer. You have to breed Love from generation to generation. We all bleed the same blood. Help your fellow man, love your fellow man as he is one of your own. Since we don't know when are time is up in life ...leave your mark behind.....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
THINKING HOW COULD GOD CREATE SUCH GORGEOUS MEN..... JOSH HARTNETT-PEARL HARBOR,GREGORY PECK....HOW PHILIP SEYMOUR HOFFMAN'S ACTING IS SO GENIUS THAT IT TURNS ME ON. JAMES DEAN,JAMES CAGNEY ONE OF THE BEST ACTORS
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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ADAM LAMBERT IS WAY HOT!!!
Vampires are hot! Aside from that, l don't tolerate cheaters,selfish people, infidelity,crytical people,non compassionate people, need i say more....:). l have a big heart, but i am far from niave. lt takes time to trust somebody and build on that. People need to lay the cards on the table always. Communication is the key to a healthy relationship. No need to waste time if you are not content with your partner. Work it out, have the conversation, or just move on, i have always believed in that. No this has not happened to me so i am not bitter.. i've just seen alot. Never been married, if it happens.. it happens,if it doesn't.. it doesn't.
You should message me if
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You're into muscle cars like me..:)1967 Shelby GT 500 Eleanor
lf you are attractive in mind, body and soul. Oh also physical wouldn't hurt.:) Meek character is the best way to live. lf you also have a dog,lol..:) ln life, you get what you settle for.