***update*** May 2 2013
Congratulate me, I'm smoke free! With that being said, if you are a regular smoker, chances are that I won't pursue you because I'm going to be struggling for a while. Also, I need a nonsmoker to help me through this. Preferably a active one that will walk and bike with so I don't gain weight

I like to consider myself a independant hard working mother but at times I doubt myself. I have a 15 year old son. He is the main reason I am single. Not alot of men can handle the stress of a teen. I am open, honest, and sincere. I don't edit myself. I am huge on communication which scares most men. I have been single for 6 years and I'm ready to settle down so I'm not looking for any booty calls. I have a huge heart and alot of attention to offer a man and will go to great lengths for him when I fall in love but I've been used plenty so I have some walls.

***update***
I am NOT going to give myself to someone just because they are horny. Would you really want to marry someone that easy? The only thing I'm lacking is someone that cares for me. That's what I miss and the only thing I want. Everybody wants to be loved no matter how much you have suppressed your feelings. I will be your friend but I won't let you use me. So if you plan to send me a message saying "nice boobs" I will say thank you and that's all because you're just clearly trying to get laid. Also, if you're too busy to meet with me within a week or 2, don't bother. I get too many messages from people that do want to meet and if I like him but I still haven't met you I don't want to be wondering in the back of my mind if I should have waited and given you a chance. I will still continue to respond to men until I meet someone and see that the spark is there for both of us. Also I'm sorry to say that I have never had a attraction to black or Indian men. One last thing is that I really hate texting. It's ok if it's a quick question or to tell me who you are. If you can't talk or don't have time to meet with me a relationship won't work for u

Currently maintaining a house, car, and a teenage kid is a full time job on top of a full time job and a part time weekend job is my life story

hmmm. Guess you will have to tell me

I talk alot. You might have to shut me up. But I have been told that I am a amazing mom for keeping my job with a teen and not living off the government

I'm more into supernatural and fantasy books and movies. Twilight, Harry Potter, etc

work, cigarettes (yes I know its nasty but i'm too afraid to gain weight while i'm single and I do want to quit), my morning coffee (dr. pepper), my car cause I like to get up and go on last minute road trips and it's the source of my income, my bed, and dvr

What my son is going to grow up like and if I am going to be alone forever

working then home in bed

I get attached very easily which is another reason I don't have sex without a commitment

you have a way to support yourself, car, and preferably not living with relatives for more than 6 months. Also if you are into thick chics because I'm 5'5 175 lbs