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29 M New York, NY

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Last Online
Today – 7:29am
6′ 1″ (1.85m)
Body Type
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Taurus, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes cats
English (Fluently), Malay (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I've been a freelance animator in Minneapolis for some time now, but now circumstance and nostalgia have collaborated on bringing me back home. The bus dropped me outside my ramshackle family cottage with peeling white paint after hours of driving, with the pussy willow still the colour of irish moss and the old tire swing creaking in the wind. Except I don't live in small-town Louisiana, so just imagine that, but with gleaming international airport terminals, roaring smog-choked freeways, tourist traps, and seasons of crippling bureaucracy. The weather is awesome in Malaysia, and the air is full of insects that want my blood.

I'm going to be back for some time now that I'm working, but I am still largely without transport, which means I normally have to rely on LRT or taxi's to get anywhere. Which usually means I'll be hideously unpunctual. I've had my heart broken a bunch of times, but bless it, it's a little scrapper and now that it's gotten some water on its face and some fresh cloth wrapped around its knuckles, it's ready for another round. Stay down, kid!

I love trans and genderqueer issues, and the idea of true morphological democracy in our lifetime is hopeful and promising. I'm interested in gay things, and nonmonogamy in general, as well Lacanian psychoanalysis, marxism, and anything that offers a workable alternative to capitalism. I try to trip on acid once or twice every year to re-evaluate where I am in relation to the precipice. I want to be an uncaring picaresque, and have a John Waters mustache, to be well-read and much-loved. I want to tumble downhill with all my friends and know it's okay before we hit the bottom. I love puns and I always try to end on a joke, so I feel badly that I couldn't fit one in here. And I've got a Moominpappa tattoo.

I am sketching, concerned, and (de)constructing
What I’m doing with my life
working two freelance jobs, saving up enough money to go couch surfing again, trying to read enough books to keep my perversity from falling below standard, and running running running
I’m really good at
Playing, Listening, Reading to people, Drawing, Debating (respectfully), Holding up under pressure, getting along with children, Talking about ambitions and dreams, cooking a mean veggie-bolognese/red wine sauce, talking in voices not my own, and Helping a Brother out.
The first things people usually notice about me
My glasses and lips. My flailing limbs. My sense of tumor. I MEAN....I mean my sense of humor. that's...that's what I mean. sorry. Also I'm pretty polite.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Great Gatsby by F.Scott Fitzgerald, Freedom Evolves by Daniel Dennett, Concrete Island by J.G. Ballard, The Unsayable by Annie G. Rogers, anything involving Jacques Lacan or Karl Marx by Slavoj Zizek, The Ethical Slut, Ghost World by Dan Clowes, anything by Grant Morrison, Russel Patterson, Paul Pope, Jeff Smith or Anne Carson (but especially Beauty of the Husband and an Autobiography of Red), some stuff my Rumi and Hafiz, anything by the Coen Brothers, Danny Boyle, Michael Hanneke, David Cronenberg or Chan Wook Park, Children of Men, Perfume, Belleville Rendez-vouz, Dr. Strangelove, Atonement, the british series The Prisoner (I am not a number!), Ed Burns and David Simon's The Wire, House M.D., Astroboy, Deadwood, Shortbus, Joss Whedon's Dollhouse, Serenity, and even Buffy, Indian food (lamb vindaloo), escargot, Django Reinhardt, Go!team, Johnny Cash, Esquivel, Kate Bush(wuthering, wuthering, wuthering heights), Annie Lennox, the Magnetic Fields, Placebo, Blur, MGMT and David Bowie's Life on Mars. fucking biblical-ass song.
The six things I could never do without
pencils, androgynous creatures, spicy food, devil-may-care grins, Large bodies of water, and civil rights.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
stories, who people are when no-one's looking, my sex toys, freckles and why I don't have them, and how to deconstruct language and culture humanely.
On a typical Friday night I am
sitting in a friend's apartment watching a movie, having a nice dinner out, reading indoors, wandering by the river, kicking feverishly into the air and yelling for my mother.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I am a human, and a combined product of all my insecurities and skills. I'm the one who set the fire.
I’m looking for
  • Guys and girls who like bi guys
  • Ages 18–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex