I was born and raised in Littleton, CO by two amazing parents. I have two siblings, brother and sister both younger. At any given point and time in our lives we have wanted to strangle or hug each other, I think that might be the definition of family. My parents needed time to come to terms with me being gay but in the end they came around and showed how much they love m, for that I am thankful.
Taking that in mind I had moved out by the age of 16 and spent most near half my life looking after myself. I had some set backs and was no where near where I wanted to be in life. There is a saying that goes along like this, "if you truly want to give God a laugh, just make plans". I am not entirely sure if that is the exact quote but even being an Atheist or Agnostic I can see the joke.
Life is about adapting and living in the now, which I am finally starting to grasp. This pertains to my family, educational, social, professional, and romantic life.
I am currently running and operating my own small business. I install and remove signs for houses going on or off the market, dispense marketing materials, painting, home renovation work, landscaping, and other things. I am currently debating about entering into volunteer programs to try and help in third world countries. If you know of any good ones let me know. I have professional aspirations as well and do very well in sales, customer service, and other people oriented professions.
On that note I have been full heartily in love in my life and since then I drifted finding it difficult to want any real love life. For the last two years I had begun to move on. He will always be a piece of me and that will never change, he is my past and I am looking forward to the future.
In the end, as far as what I am looking for in a guy, I don't know for certain. I want a family with the husband, kids, and a few dogs running around. However, when that happens and how can be flexible. I also would like to travel more, mostly out of the country but camping around the state or country is grand too.
I have always been driven and hard working and would like someone who is the same way, this does also present the problem of finding times to make things work, but that's a relationship and it takes both parties to make it work.
I have a kind heart and a sharp mind but have been taken advantage of many a time before but something's are worth putting your heart on your sleeve. I want to find that love that makes my knees go wobbly every time his hand touch's mine, the kind where we fit tooth and nail for our love even if at times it has to be with each other. The kind of love where any past problems or people seem like a distant dream. So given that I don't like clubs and am not really into gay bars the net seems like the best option.
I believe that it is each of our jobs to make the world a better place, small and large deeds can change this world as long as you know what your fighting for and why.
Lastly for those who are interested in Myers Briggs I am a ENTP - The Inventor