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50 Easthampton, MA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–50
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 9:10am
5′ 5″ (1.65m)
Body Type
Other, and laughing about it
Aries, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I have:
held onto Superman's cape as we leapt tall buildings with a single bound...
helped Wonderwoman stop bullets in mid flight...
danced on mountain tops in Peru, on the beaches of British Columbia, and in crystal caves in Arkansas...
started fires, fought fires and manipulated fire...
lived in the manic city of New York, suburbs of Long Island, bucolic island of Martha's Vineyard, and now the Valley...
created fantasies, lived fantasies and destroyed fantasies...
I have the mind of a business person, the soul of an artist, and the spirit of a redhead.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have been offline for a number of months now because honestly I was bored by the men who were contacting me. Figured I would give a bit of my time again for a month and see who is here now.....I am looking for a partner who is focused, self sufficient, is employed (or retired early), has a car, doesn't live with their parents, self confident, funny, spontaneous, has a full vision for his life and goes for it! I am Living it in each moment as fully as possible. Breathing, dancing, road travel, antiquing, developing my arts business.
Just returned home from 4 months on the road traveling in my bus around the country. Wonderful adventures and insights were part of each day. I am truly blessed to live a life that I recreate each day.
I do not believe in organized religion (yet I am very spiritual), god as a human figure or the bible so if you are a religious person we would not match well and I cannot be "converted".
I color way outside the lines, do you know what Burning Man is? I have always wanted to go but have not been able to yet. Most of my friends out west are burners so that kind of tells you who I usually like to hang with....
I spend the summers back on the island :)
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
... designing jewelry and interiors, scrabble, billiards, road travel, spontaneity, soaking at hot springs for days at a time, exploring caves and people watching.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Pretty obviously my hair and then probably how I walk.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I love all music, alt,folk, electronica, celtic, tribal, trance, techno but no acid rock and punk ( basically anything I can dance or sing to). Prefer spicy ethnic food, winter comfort soups that I love to cook for friends,wasabi, chai, smoked bluefish, fruit and vegetable juices.
I don't own a tv or go to movies much at all so I am definitely not up on the latest from Hollywood. Now books on the other hand I go through like water...if you have read Tom Robbins you get an extra check mark from me, lol, and if you have read Still life with Woodpecker then you might even understand me a little more than others ;)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my cats, Touch, laughter, making something with my hands, my friends, hot water and the ocean, deep breathing and dance...well that is more than six but why limit ourselves?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
In this age of technology why do so many men have such awful photos of themselves on their profiles? Get a friend to take the picture!!! you really think you look like you did 20 years ago and women are not going to notice when your profile shot is from then and you are faking your age? What will happen when you meet in person and she cannot even recognize you? Been there done that, it sucks to waste people's time with false pretensions!
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out at Ecstatic dance which is not "clubbing" but a way of transforming energy and releasing stresses.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I sometimes leave dirty dishes in the sink and often I wear really funky 50's style cat eyeglasses. Anything other than that is just that "Private" and I am certainly not putting it here online, lol.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
The age you put in your profile is REALLY your age, and the photos are within the past two years. You want to chat and see if we want to meet. Please don't just send a perverted one liner and expect a response. My profile is pretty accurate about who I am so if you got through it and are still interested...

IMPORTANT: just because you have compared our test results and made assumptions about who I am let me tell you right now I am not interested in sex talk with strangers. I don't want to drag on with emails, texts or phone calls. Let's meet for coffee/tea or a drink and just see if there is any attraction. I am open, friendly, and don't bite (often ;).