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shelbyracer

46 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Cruz, California

The Skinny

Last Online
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Ethnicity
Asian, White
Height
5' 10" (1.77m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other but not too serious about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from med school
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am honest, affectionate, and loyal.

My Self-Summary

I think I have been looking for love in all the wrong places. My life is coming together, but it is incomplete. I love animals and cars. I believe that women are one of God's greatest inventions! I avoid drama and love to live a quiet life. Honesty is essential, because with out it, you have nothing. I am a 45 year old chinese / swedish 230 # (but working on it) 5' 10" small animal vet. I do not belive that physical attraction is the most important thing in a relationship, but you have to be attracted to each other or it will never last.

What I’m doing with my life

I love my job and I am blessed to have friends who are the family I chose. I love my house, but it keeps me busy. I love cars so much, that I had an epiphany as to why some women love shoes :).

I’m really good at

Problem solving (although I do not want to have to do it all the time).

The first things people usually notice about me

My huge .......brain (lol - j/K) ... my sense of humor?

Smile and my laugh.

Editors

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Tom Clancy, Dale Brown,
I listen to country most of the time but also like classical, rock, baroque, instrumental / new age....just about anything except for rap/ hip hop / opera.
I like almost all foods except for pickles, olives, sensory and internal organs.
Pixar movies ( "CARS" is a favorite)

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The six things I could never do without

Love
friends
cars
animals
honor
respect

I spend a lot of time thinking about

animals - it goes with the job
cars - I am down to "only" 7 right now, but they are a harmless passion.

On a typical Friday night I am

home from work and ready for the week end

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

life is hard but worth the struggle

You should message me if

you live close or would consider moving closer (I finally have a living situation that I love and am not willing to give up).
You think we are a good match.
If you believe in honesty (don't think that lying, cheating, misleading, omitting are okay)
Want a long term monogamous fulfilling relationship