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shelmabel

32 / F / straight / Single

London, United Kingdom

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Undeclared
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Curvy
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism and laughing about it
Sign
Aquarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Political / Government
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently), French, Spanish

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I am clevererer, rather sweet, and a bit bored.

My Self-Summary

i'm looking for a worthy adversary and a partner in crime. as for me, i might make you laugh...we could have fun...and i generally mean well, you know.

and while i'm making the most of every minute, London's a hard place to meet a nice guy.

i admire beauty and truth, a lack of vanity (but not of basic hygiene), a basic grasp of contemporary ideas and young men i see in the street...i'm keen on laughing, reading, dancing and i'm trying to be keen on running but, er, well...

so if you're tall, cute and a bit of a smartass/madman, even if its under a shy exterior, why not drop me a line? what's the worst that could happen?

oh yeah and if you try to IM me, don't be offended if I dont reply. I can't get the bloody thing to work. Send me a message.

What I’m doing with my life

i work in advertising. with all the rubbish that that entails.

I’m really good at

glib one liners

The first things people usually notice about me

i've got funny green eyes and people keep asking me where i come from. i'm half indian and half english. so now you don't have to ask.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

oh oh i could go on for days.
a. anything by umberto eco, terry pratchett, philip pullman, felipe fernandez armesto, history books, science books, stuff i didn't know before, places i haven't been yet, things which aren't real but could be, you never know...

b. the story of the weeping camel. the princess bride. donnie darko. cowboy bebop. and anything where a sports team wins despite dissension, adversity and some sort of personal disaster.

c. all sorts, these days. but i reckon i'll always be a bit weird about nick drake.

d. meats and cheeses. i'm trying to be healthy these days but i'll eat antipasti twice because it is so nice. and i'll cook a curry that'll do you in...also, this week, i seem to be eating a lot of raisins.

The six things I could never do without

mates.
cheese.
sleep - i had insomnia for three weeks straight once. horrible.
places i haven't been yet.
finding things a bit too funny.
my overpronator's trainers. because i'm crap at running.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

stuff. and nonsense.

On a typical Friday night I am

in. or out.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i have absolutely no sense of direction. i could get lost in my own flat. in fact, where the hell am i?

You should message me if

you like me. or if you just fancy an argument.