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39 Seattle, WA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–42
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 16
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Taurus, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from law school
Banking / Finance
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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"She wasn't doing a thing that I could see, except standing there leaning on the balcony railing, holding the universe together."
—J. D. Salinger, "A Girl I Knew"

I am pretty damn hilarious. Seriously. I cherish friendship, family and adding value to the lives of those I touch. I have experienced enough life to be jaded by it, but I’m not. I trust that you are not either.

No resume here. I've lived a badass life so far and don't plan on changing that particular pattern. I'm passionate about a lot of things, topics and ideas. Go ahead, ask me...

Obviously, I'm looking for someone rad. I am attracted to women who are intelligent, curious, worldly, self-aware and empathetic. Most importantly, I treasure those who dream big and focus more on life’s opportunities than its potential pitfalls. Also, being able to laugh at yourself and life's absurdities is a big, big plus...
What I’m doing with my life
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I co-founded a startup company called ChooseVets (we help military veterans find work). Its been super exciting and a lot of fun. Check it out at

I'm also an M&A advisor (I broker the sale of medium-sized sized privately held businesses). Spreadsheets and handholding...
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Thinking on my feet and knowing what to do in an emergency (blown tire on the freeway, zombie apocalypse... etc.).
The first things people usually notice about me
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Follicly challenged...
Great ass...
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Typical stuff... I wish I was into conspiracy theories (chem-trails!!!) or flaming arrow archery so I could differentiate myself on here.

TV: Breaking Bad, House of Cards, John Oliver, Bill Maher, Game of Thrones, BSG, Rome, and The Walking Dead.

Movies: The Big Lebowski, Office Space, Dazed and Confused, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Casablanca, Dogma, and pretty much anything by the Cohen Brothers.

Books: I try not to be a dumbass;) Republic Lost by Lawrence Lessig, Blue Ocean Strategy, The Startup Owners Manual by Steve Blank, and The Great Unwinding by George Packer. Some of my all time favorite authors are Steinbeck, Fitzgerald, Aldous Huxley, George Orwell, Robert Heinlein, Harper Lee, and Hemingway (I love his writing).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
The perfection of this sentance...
"Sometimes I can feel my bones straining under the weight of all the lives I'm not living."
—Jonathan Safran Foer, Extremely Loud and Incredibly Close

Weighing the pros and cons of the "chicken bus." I backpacked around South America for five months (6,000 miles, all by bus). Great way to see the reality of the place you are at, but hard on the joints and eardrums...
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have lost weekends to Netflix binge watching... Trying to keep this to a minimum. Just got sucked into Season 3 of House of Cards though. Crap...
You should message me if
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If you think we may click. You never really know if we may have chemistry until we meet each other. Nothing ventured, nothing gained...