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shesaghost

23 / F / straight / Single

Orlando, Florida

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 11" (1.80m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aries and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from high school
Job
Other
Income
Less than $20,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am lookin for beards, please, and thank you.

My Self-Summary

I'm not very good at describing myself so instead i'll just let you read about "My Perfect Day."

On my perfect day I would wake up with the sun, drink some organically grown green tea with just the correct amount of honey. Eat a strawberry Nutri-gain bar. Put on the hippie-est clothes imaginable and ride my bike to the nearest field.

I would lay down on the grass with my guitar and my playing would be so beautiful that all of the woodland creatures would come out of the forest and help me sing a wonderful song about love and life as we watched the end of the sunrise. After that we would all make dream catchers and play frisbee. Me and the critters.

Then I would drink one Yuengling and one PBR and go thrifting. I would get the best finds ever and take some of them back to my clean house and sew a fantastic dress I would wear later in the evening.

After I have sewn, I would take a nap in brand new clean white sheets. I would sleep for four hours and wake up just in time to watch Maury. I would eat apples and peanut butter for lunch, with a side of chicken and rice soup followed by approximately 12 icey pops. After my late lunch I would put on my dress and dance around in my house to 30s and 40s big band and swing music.

I would then go downtown and give random people flowers that the woodland creatures will have picked me earlier in the day. I would dance in the street and then be whisked away by Jake Bellows on a 1969 cream vespa with a red stripe down the middle trimmed in chrome. Later, he would ask me to marry him and we would move to New Zealand where we would start having children and begin the "Bellows Family Singers." a world-renowned folk-pop group.

What I’m doing with my life

Right now I'm going whichever way the wind blows. Strange, though my feet are still rooted. I work in a coffee shop that I love and this will be my 4th year as a barista. I can make latte art. I ride bicycles and i'm building one right now. It's a horribly involved process. I have a healthy obsession with going to the gym and getting back in shape the healthy way. I'm always surrounded by incredible people. I'm just living and loving my life.

I’m really good at

Games. Board games especially. Doing things efficiently. Choosing my words. Walking the thin line of "I love and care about you" and "I'm looking out for myself." Bringing the party. Making coffee. Collecting records. Being open minded. That's something I really love about myself. I believe in truth, most importantly but also in possibility. I believe in and follow Jesus but I'm jaded by the monster that has come out of the corporate "church." I really like and respect most other religions, especially tibetan buddhism. There are some beautiful ideals there.

The first things people usually notice about me

My tattoos, my height or my (apparently) "intimidating" appearance. I usually have something flowery or feathery in my hair that I make myself.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Books: Ayn Rand, Harry Potter, Blue Like Jazz, 1984, The Tibetan Book of the Dead, I never know what to read so if you have any suggestions get at me.

Movies: I'll basically watch anything but I haven't seen a lot. I love Pulp Fiction, Lars and the Real Girl, Pride and Predjudice (the kiera version), Rules of Attraction, Legally Blonde, old horror movies with implied gore, old movies from '30s-'50s with no singing... well, maybe some singing.

Food: falafel, fruit, hummus, I don't eat a lot of veggies and I don't eat a lot of read meat... but gimme that turkey and chicken. SOUP.

Music:

This one is most important, probably.

We'll start off with George Harrison, Harry Nilsson, Velvet Underground, Chuck Berry, The Doors, Billie Holiday, The Guess Who, Lennon, Cash, Kaleidoscope, Smiths, The Pixies, Polaris, Rage, The Kinks, Simon and Garfunkel, The United States of America, The Who, The Beatles (God, I love George), The Zombies

Then we'll move into Radiohead, Sufjan Stevens, Belle & Sebastian, Jens Lekman, The White Stripes, Arcade Fire, Art Brut, The Bees, Beulah, Broken Social Scene, Cap'n Jazz, Clap Your Hands Say Yeah, Crime Mob, Cursive, Death From Above 1979, The Decemberists, Devendra Banhart, Explosions in the Sky, The Faint, The Flaming Lips, French Kicks, Garbage, Ghosts and Vodka, Goldfrapp, Grandaddy, Grizzly Bear, The Guess Who, Interpol, Iron & Wine, Jimmy Eat World, Joanna Newsom, Ladyhawk, The Left Banke, Leonard Cohen, M. Ward, MIA, Midlake, The Minders, Mineral, Modest Mouse, Mountain Goats, Moving Units, Nada Surf, Neutral Milk Hotel, Owen, Panda Bear, Pete Yorn, Peter Bjorn And John, Phoenix, The Postal Service, Psychedelic Furs, Q and Not U, The Raconteurs, Rapture, Ravonettes, Red House Painters, Royksopp, The Sea and Cake, Sean Lennon, Sebadoh, Shins, Simon Joyner, Smog, Songs:Ohia, Sun Kil Moon, Tapes n' Tapes, Third Eye Blind, Turbo Fruits, TV on the Radio, The Unicorns, Velvet Teen, The Whitest Boy Alive, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, !!!

And sprinkle on top some GUCCI MANE, Lil Wayne, Three 6 Mafia, Lil Boosie, UGK, Young Jeezy, A Tribe Called Quest, Lupe, old Ludacris, Webbie, Ying Yang, Lil Jon, WU TANG, T Pain, Trick Daddy, Trina, Lil Kim, Treal and anyone else that raps and is from Orlando.

But the most important of all is all incarnations of Conor Oberst, Jake Bellows of Neva Dinova, Will Oldham (Bonnie "Prince" Billy), Jason Molina (Songs:Ohia), and Justin Vernon (Bon Iver).

The six things I could never do without

Art, love, whiskey, imagination, music, symbolism.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Good times had, good times to come. Painting ideas. Lots of random stuff. I think I spend most of my time thinking about plans. Plans and how I can better myself and the world around me. Existence in general.

On a typical Friday night I am

Haha, sleeping because I work saturdays. But if I don't have to, I'm at a bar with my friends or I'm at a friends house. These friends...aarynisabee and cristybell

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

There's really no secrets as long as I'm comfortable with you.

You should message me if

....you would like to smoke me out, if we have similar musical tastes, you look like an attractive lumberjack, or if you think you can understand how my mind works. Message me if you know how to be yourself and not worry about what other people think about you.