I identify as genderqueer-bordering-on-trans and use male pronouns.

I'm really into butches and trans men. If you identify as butch, androgynous, genderqueer, ftm, or trannyboy I will take a second glance at you. Lately I've been really into the "hot andro dyke" aesthetic. I am not into femmes. I've never been with a cis man or a trans woman. You have to be trans friendly to be with me. I'm quite kinky, but I'm not into humiliation, so don't start there, or even go there at all.

I'm really cool, if you think that geeky and nerdy combined with being a drag king make a person really cool. Which I totally do. I write, read a whole bunch, and listen to dyke bands like the Butchies and Chris Pureka as well as more far-flung groups like the Grateful Dead and Gaia Consort. I love thai food and buffalo wings. Like a lot. I knit and crochet and am getting pretty good at both. I love Humphrey Bogart and Preston Sturges movies.

I think poetry is really hot, but if you've never written a poem before, you're probably NOT a poet. Seriously. And thesaurus abuse is such a turn off.

I will probably edit your spelling and grammar in whatever message you send me. It's a tic. I won't send it back to you corrected, I promise.

I also am always looking for smart, intense people for friendship and intellectual discourse. Convince me.

Right now, I'm working for a pittance as a part-time arts administrator. I love it.

I'm really, really good at scrabble, and if you're a scrabble shark too, you'll get my number.

The deer-in-the-headlights look that I wear at social functions.

My favorite books are Watership Down, Treasure Island, The Disposessed (which my screenname is from), Woman on the Edge of Time and The Shipping News. My favorite authors are J.D. Salinger, Tanya Huff, Lois McMaster Bujold and Jim Butcher. I am also a big fan of P.G. Wodehouse.

My favorite movies are Casablanca, Run Lola Run, Nightmare Before Christmas, Wait Until Dark, and The Full Monty.

My favorite music is Erin McKeown, Chris Pureka, The Grateful Dead, They Might Be Giants, and The Indigo Girls.

My favorite play is Rosencrantz and Guildenstern are Dead. I write plays myself, as well, and have a copy of the one that I had produced my senior year in high school that I'm not sure whether to share or burn in the backyard.

I like spicy food.

Garlic, sex, yarn, San Francisco, my book collection, and angry people

Your dichotomy is false.

I don't really go out on Fridays. I go out other days, such as Wednesday. I spend the odd Saturday away from home. I think I've gone out one Friday out of the last five. Also, during concert season I'm often working on weekends. But you can come volunteer for my organization if you want to see me on a Friday night.

If you admit it on the internet, it's not private anymore.

you think I'm hot