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shewaits

27 / F / straight / Single

Rentz, Georgia

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Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Full figured
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Leo and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from two-year college
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Rather not say
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Poorly)

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I am whimsical, amusing, and intellectual.

My Self-Summary

I am smart, funny, and fiercely dignified.
I like guys with long hair and I'm a sucker for blue eyes. I also like nerds, poets, artists, and musicians but none of those is a requirement. Brilliance, however, is.
I'm a pretty big nerd]. I also read, write, and love poetry. Reading, writing, movies, and music are big parts of who I am. I am a big fan of nature, mountains, and wide-open spaces. I honestly despise televised sports, and am not going to pretend to like them. I rarely watch TV at all, though I can occasionally get into a decent crime drama.
I tend toward cynicism in an ironic/amused sort of way, have a strange/confused relationship with God (the Christian God, that is- though for the record, I'm extremely tolerant of people with different viewpoints and am not adverse to dating someone with different beliefs), and am VERY into knowledge.
I like cooking, eating, and singing. I am passionate about a laundry list of things from politics to music. I also like to argue/debate (but not fight). I have an awesome, if cynical (and/or slightly off-colour, and/or just plain odd) sense of humour and am at my best when making someone laugh. I love animals and am a magnet for stray cats. (And the occasional stray dog, too.)
At my most basic, I am my own person. I think and believe what I know is right without apologizing for it. I'm looking for something above average in a depressingly below-average world.

What I’m doing with my life

Job-hunting, trying to get back in school. Learning as much as I can about as much as I can. Waiting for what's next.

I’m really good at

Being different. Not to be arrogant (this question somewhat requires one to be arrogant, doesn't it?) but I've been told I'm also good at: singing, writing poetry, dressing well, cooking, faking accents (particularly European), trivia, sexual innuendo (in a humorous way), making jokes, and puns. Also, I will kick your ass at rummy.

The first things people usually notice about me

I have crazy-curly hair that I've given up on, and more than likely, a bemused expression on my face.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

This could take awhile.
A) Hmm... Titles: The Bean Trees, The Neverending Story, She's Come Undone, The Vagina Monologues, Diana (impossible to find book by R.F. Delderfield), The Chronicles of Narnia, Emma, The Crystal Cave, Skinny Women are Evil, Catcher in the Rye, Lolita, Hippie, The Hippie Dictionary, The Outlaw Bible of American Poetry
Authors: (generally implies I like more than one of their works): Jane Austen, Stephen King, Anne Rice, Jack Kerouac, Allen Ginsberg, T.S. Eliot, Edgar Allan Poe, Shakespeare, Janet Evanovich, Fannie Flagg, Chuck Palahniuk, J.K. Rowling, Flannery O'Connor, Carson McCullers, Saul Williams...
Various books on human sexuality, trivia, religion, philosophy... Books by various lesser-known poets...
And I think that probably still doesn't cover it all. Heh. I am your standard bibliophile.
b) almost famous, garden state, amelie, eternal sunshine of the spotless mind, dirty dancing (yes, I know, typical chick flick...), the big chill, breakfast at tiffany's, the breakfast club, LOTR movies, harry potter movies, star wars (the first trilogy,I haven't seen any of the new ones yet), Love Actually, My Girl (and My Girl II), fight club, woodstock, pulp fiction, hair, grease, the graduate, fried green tomatoes, pirates of the carribean (see also: anything with johnny depp), robin hood: prince of thieves, the nightmare before christmas, the rocky horror picture show, Monty Python movies, Kevin Smith movies, memento, donnie darko, etc...
c) allman brothers, janis joplin, the grateful dead, the beatles, jimi hendrix, simon and garfunkel, paul simon, van morrison, jackson browne, lynyrd skynyrd, marshall tucker, led zeppelin, pink floyd, the eagles, joni mitchell, jefferson airplane, creedence clearwater revival, the band, bob dylan, the rolling stones, the who, the doors, the mamas and the papas, elton john, cass elliot, james taylor, ben taylor, tom petty, eric clapton, rod mckuen, rod stewart, the eagles, queen, bob seeger, fleetwood mac, the red house painters, damien rice, jack johnson, ben harper, norah jones, bonnie "prince" billy, widespread panic, sublime, aerosmith, counting crows, the verve, Ben Folds, R.E.M, H.I.M, O.A.R, D.H.T, something for kate, tool, a perfect circle, gin blossoms, bush, dave matthews, live, red hot chili peppers, the smashing pumpkins, zwan, tori amos, alabama, johnny cash, george jones, the polyphonic spree, the shins, the white stripes, the postal service, death cab for cutie, chicago, george strait, aretha franklin, carole king, matchbox 20, the goo goo dolls, michael buble, miles davis, leadbelly, billie holliday, nina simone, anna nalick, over the rhine, beethoven, debussy, mozart... This is going to take all day. Pretty much everything except Rap, 90% (maybe 95%) of Top 40 pop, whiny punk music and unintelligible screaming disguised as "metal"
d) cheese (all cheese, any cheese, as long as it's cheese), chocolate, caramel, honey, cheesecake, cheap wine (I am a shameless fan of Arbor Mist, ye cringing oenophiles), gold tequila (I'm not a drunk, I just like how it tastes), potatoes, pasta, (pretty much any Italian food), plain lo mein (no meat or veggies, just the sauce and noodles), chicken, most any kind of fruit (especially peaches and watermelon), mexican food, chai tea, iced tea, and really strong coffee.

The six things I could never do without

1) Family
2) Friends
3) Books
4) Great Music
5) Laughter
6) Sleep

I spend a lot of time thinking about

Everything- literally. If I'm in the right mood, thinking keeps me awake at night.

On a typical Friday night I am

Either a) hanging out at home, b) Doing something random with friends. We seem to like doing dorky things like RPG'ing (I'm very new to it), going to random festivals/fairs, or just catching a movie or grabbing dinner somewhere.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Though I usually try hard not to be, I can be exceptionally dark and cynical.
And I don't hook up. At all. Ever.

You should message me if

You read my whole profile before you looked at my pictures. You're intrigued by independent, strong-willed women. You don't want to talk to me about your penis, my vagina, my breasts, or any combination thereof. You are not obsessed with unrealistic notions of beauty. You have a soul.