Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am a Californian, born and bred, and though a career change could
someday lead me to look elsewhere, I hope to stay here where it's
warm and the cycling is good...I sometimes take a little time to
feel free to be myself, but my close friends know me to be a often
funny, always fun-loving, foodie and dog lover.
My family and friends are very important to me. As is Morgan, the
muppet-like dog you see in the pictures.
I am a bit of a cycling fanatic. I got on the bike a few years ago,
and now I can't seem to get enough of being outside, climbing
hills, and challenging myself. I belong to a bike club on the
Peninsula, but the biking I love often has me alone climbing the
And my job has me staring at a computer screen for too long each
I am looking for someone generous and kind, who, like me, puts
family and friends first. She doesn't need to be a cyclist, but I'd
like to find someone with a sense of adventure, who could travel
with me, seek out better wine, and enjoy cooking and eating great
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Honestly, work pays the bills. It is sometimes interesting, often
frustrating. It isn't going to make me filthy rich, but it keeps me
and the dog fed, and me on the bike, and lets me add stamps to my
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
climbing hills and putting the hammer down.
working the grill.
joining the fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Once upon a time, it was probably my smile. But not since I got a
dog last year. Now it is all about him when I meet people.
(Sometimes the women I hear from want to meet my awesome dog as
much as they do me. I can't say I blame them, though. He
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I killed my TV service last June but I still have my favorites:
Daily Show, Colbert Report, The Wire, Mad Men, Community, Modern
I want to spend more time reading books. Latest reads include
Breaking the News, For the Relief of Unbearable Urges. I regularly
read The Economist, The Atlantic, New Yorker. A lot of my news gets
filtered through the blog world. Andrew Sullivan is a daily read.
(Yes, he is earnest and preachy and catholic, but his blog is
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Really good coffee
My iPhone (that's semi-serious)
The interwebs, generally
Good music, especially jazz
Family and friends
My dog, Morgan
extra things, evidently
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Where to get coffee. Where to eat. What breed my dog is.
Politics. Foreign and environmental policy. What's next.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
It is not exactly private, but... I have a stutter. I have since I
It's not 'Kings Speech' bad, but it's there. Sometimes it is
better, sometimes it is worse. Sometimes I work at it, sometimes I
don't. I always have things to say, I just can't always get it out
as quickly as I'd like.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are looking for something real and long term. I am not looking
to 'play the field' but I am here to widen the circle of
possibilities. I want to find someone great, who wants to have kids
and lots of fun.
You love dogs. (I don't hate cats, I am just really
You have courage. My ideal woman is probably someone willing to
meet me half way. OkCupid dates can be so lame, and while I am
really good at knowing people, getting to know people and build
that rapport is tough. So... let's get to know each other?
Preferably in person?
Who are you looking for?
This helps us know who to show you on OkCupid.