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shihaku

34 / M / Gay / Available

Salt Lake City, Utah

His Details

Last Online
May 15
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other and laughing about it
Sign
Pisces and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Political / Government
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
Thanks for checking out the profile. I've got to tell you up front that this one is a bit different.
We’re two guys who have been in love for twelve incredible years. We are looking for a man interested in getting to know us as friends and then seeing where things might go beyond that. We're not talking about a random sexual encounter here but a committed polyamorous relationship. If you’ve ever considered the possibility of a triad relationship, contact us. We do have experience with a triad relationship.
We are spiritual and identify as pagan. We practice witchcraft and shamanism. We try to live simply and be “green”. We're fortunate enough to have a wonderful family that includes our closest friends. We’re both political and lean toward the left. We like to go out for meals and movies and late night visits over coffee. We don’t go to the bars very often. We find them a bit depressing to be honest. We do however enjoy dancing at local nightclubs. We love music. 80’s, 90’s, electronica, jazz, rock, alternative; it’s all brilliant. We're both big readers. Kris prefers fantasy and science fiction. My tastes lean toward non-fiction and new age genres. We're into body piercings and tattoos and both of us have several of each.
We love to chat and welcome all messages.

Be well
What I’m doing with my life
Living, loving, learning. Somewhat happily employed government drones. Working to establish a family business. Practicing witchcraft. Hanging with the Utah Bears.
I’m really good at
Communicating. Mutual respect. Being supportive friends. Making jewelry. Drinking coffee (too much). Dancing. Energy work. Lifting heavy shit. The list goes on.....
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Anything by David Sedaris and Mark Anthony. We love movies in general. We listen to everything but country and hardcore gangsta rap. Kris will eat anything but fish, mushrooms, tomatoes. I'll eat anything but pork and lamb.
The six things I could never do without
Friends, family, chocolate, goddess, books, sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
People and the world in general. Higher power. Ways to improve the lives of those we care about.
On a typical Friday night I am
At home. At a club. At a coffee shop. At a movie. We have no typical Fridays.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
We have nothing to hide and have no private information.
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 20–55
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You find anything here of interest. You're looking for something more than casual friendship or sex. You've considered a triad relationship. You are into bear culture.