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42 F Atlanta, GA

My Details

Last Online
Feb 24
5′ 5″ (1.66m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Banking / Finance
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
Looking for a needle in a haystack....
You want to talk music? I'm your girl- rock & roll girl through and through.

Ok i'll admit I'm a bit gun shy when it comes to being on here. It happens!

Here's a little bit about me, even though it feels weird talking about myself (I'd rather hear about you)
I've lived in Atlanta since the end of 1997, with a 5 year break from 2006-2011 when I moved to Boston, it's so great to be back in Atlanta! I have lived in many different parts of the country:
Rochester (grew up there until age 13), NY
Tupelo, MS (age 13 to college)
South Bend, IN (college)
Chicago, IL (1994-1997)
Atlanta (1997-2006)
Boston (2006-2011)
Atlanta (2011- present)
That's a lot, I know! But I wanted to put it out there- I can adapt to just about anything because of this.

I'm a person who sees the glass half-full, I'm very young at heart (I'm in my 40s but friends tell me I don't look it or act like it), and I find joy in helping others. I am the youngest of 4 kids- my parents just celebrated their 50th wedding anniversary. I'm very close to my family- they're extremely important to me.

My true passion is music, I'm a rock & roll girl through and through. I can play drums, guitar and sing- not necessarily fantastic at all, but I try. It's a lot of fun. I love to travel to see my favorite bands- you get to see great music and get to be adventurous at the same time.
I also love running - did my first 1/2 marathon this past November in Ft Benning, but it can be a love/hate relationship at times. I'm not a "natural" runner and have to work very hard at it. But - very rewarding!

Baseball is my favorite sport with football right behind it. The Boston Red Sox are my team in terms of baseball- bring on Memorial Day weekend in Atlanta!

Now- I want to hear about you. I'm looking for a good man who loves to laugh, has a good head on his shoulders & has good values. But, at the same time- knows how to have a good time.
What I’m doing with my life
I work in Human Resources, and have been in the same field for almost 20 years- I love what I do, but it doesn't define me. If I won the lottery tomorrow, you bet I'd be retiring!

On the side, I have my own music blog- I love to write.

Note: I have a good job, a good head on my shoulders, and I'm looking for a guy who is the same way. If you're not a gentleman, please move to the next profile. If you're looking for a sugarmama- move right along! :) ok cool thanks. Had to get that off my chest.
I’m really good at
Music Trivia, writing (I have my own music blog), planning parties & gatherings with friends, and just being an all around positive person- life is too short to be negative. I can do a mean air-guitar if you're looking for a good laugh.
I also love to cook & finding good wine/beer to drink....but I don't know if I'm necessarily "good" at that. I'm working on it though. Drumming also!!
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, because I smile A LOT. It comes natural to me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Favorite Music: It's my passion! Favorite bands include the Rolling Stones, The Who, Blind Melon, Ween, Jackie Greene, The Clash, Siouxsie & The Banshees, Jane's Addiction, White Stripes (and everything Jack White), The Black Crowes, Phish, Grateful Dead, Widespread Panic, The Drive-By Truckers, Beatles, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, the list is long, let's just put it that way.
Cameron Crowe is one of my heroes, he's an amazing writer, and I love his passion for music.
I have been playing the drums on and off for the last year-and plan to continue.

Favorite TV Shows: Sons of Anarchy, Game of Thrones, Dexter, Parenthood, True Blood, Californication, and Shameless.

Favorite Books: Keith Richards "Life", A Game of Thrones: A Song of Fire & Ice (and the rest of the series), Please Kill Me: The Uncensored Oral History of Punk, A Wrinkle in Time (awesome childhood book)

Favorite Movies: Singles, Almost Famous, Beautiful Girls, Notting Hill, Shag, All John Hughes Movies, Say Anything, Little Women, Boogie Nights, Midnight in the Garden of Good & Evil, Inventing the Abbots, Silence of the Lambs

Favorite Food: Lobster, Cheese, Shrimp (well, all seafood), Beef Tenderloin
The six things I could never do without
Good food & wine
Family & Friends
My Favorite Blanket
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What live shows are coming up, music, music, music, getting my music blog up and running on its own domain- and how I'm going to sell my homemade salsa out of my house.
On a typical Friday night I am
It depends. I'm either hanging out at home relaxing (especially if my work week was nuts), out with friends for dinner & drinks- or, at a rock show!
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Ummmmmm...not really private, but I was at the final Grateful Dead show, which was really sad. Jerry died exactly a month later- he is so missed!
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 37–50
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Message me if you are looking for your other half and want a relationship.

I'm looking for a man who loves music as much as me, who loves to travel- and was raised with good values!! Make me laugh :)

You should NOT message me if you are full of BS and fit one or more of the following (come on, laugh!):

- You are still not over your ex-girlfriend or your ex-wife.

- If you're in your 20's and looking for a cougar. The emails are getting old. Move along- I'm looking for a serious relationship.

- If you're not willing to write me an actual message. You'd be surprised the amount of messages that just say "hey"- that's just plain lazy, and not appreciated.

Guys, fill your details out! If you don't have any details about yourself or a picture- that is a red flag that you're probably married and have something to hide ;)

I am seriously looking for my other half and am looking to settle down. If you are too, message me, let's see where this goes!