shirley-may
60 Derby, UK
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My self-summary
hello everybody, lets get the hard bit over! i'm funny, love life and people. had a few near misses and live with the legacy of a disability. however, it is not anywhere near as restrictive or debilitatring as those who can not let go of the past. until you do, you cannot move forward. would love to meet that elusive 'soulmate' but happy to enjoy making good friends along the way. so, if do not take yourself too seriously, that does not mean being irresponsible or childish, and like meeting 'real' people, do drop by my mailbox. you would be most welcome, have fun x

I am happy, optimistic, and life loving
What I’m doing with my life
just finished a degree at university, so taking some time out for myself. my daughter in her last year at college so now my 2 have grown and all but flown the nest, looking at what adventure to go on next.
I’m really good at
surviving lol! listening to those who deserve to be listened to, compassion. (makes me sound like an angel - fallen i think!) i enjoy all sorts of things, whether others think i'm good is a matter of opinion.
The first things people usually notice about me
eyes and smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
frank mccourt and tom sharpe books, biographies, i adore fims like meet joe black, green mile, ghost anything that can make me laugh or has a good storyline.
The six things I could never do without
my kids (i know everyone says that but it's true)
my wheels
breathing
eating
a glass of good wine or bubbly
humour
I spend a lot of time thinking about
what i'd like to do next
On a typical Friday night I am
catching up on things missed during the week so my weekend is free
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
not telling!
You should message me if
only if you are free would be good, no married men or those looking for one night stands, casual, no strings fun.
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