I value kindness, politeness, open mindedness and the freedom to pursue individual interests (whatever they may be). I'm interested in prime time television, pop culture, polyamory, fat acceptance, feminism, politics, books, comic books, video games, adventure, fun, dancing, writing and of course more than fits into this box.

If you are seeking an exclusive relationship I am absolutely not your girl. I am interested in meaningful unconventional relationships where everyone is a consenting party. I'm also interested in making new friends, especially those involved in polyamory or people interested in advocacy or fat acceptance.

Basically I'm a strange/deviant person who is also incredibly nice, polite and cheerful.

When I'm not keeping myself busy by being congenial and happy go lucky, I am working, hiking with my dog, taking classes, dancing, advocating, reading, writing, shopping, entertaining, cooking, baking, visiting, crafting, seeing live music or plays. Also I try to always have fun.

Listening, having dinner parties, being cute, persuading people with my charms.

That I'm fat, confident, happy and generally super nice. Maybe also that I am great at making people feel at ease.

Books: The Sandman, American Gods, The Last Unicorn, Magical Thinking, Dress Your Family in Curduroy and Denim, The Perks of Being a Wallflower, The Foutainhead, Lolita, Tropic of Cancer, Factotum, The Evil BB Chow, My Life in Heavy Metal, Lord of The Flies, The Captain's Verse, Howl, The Temple of the Dawn, The Windup Bird Chronicles, The Wizard of Oz

Movies: No Country for Old Men, The Libertine, Donnie Darko, Sin City, Boon Dock Saints, Happiness, Welcome to the Dollhouse, Inland Empire, Blue Velvet, Sex Lies and Videotape, A History of Violence, Gentlemen Prefer Blondes, His Girl Friday, Breakfast at Tiffanys, Your Friends and Neighbors, Denial, Kill Bill, Videodrone, Crash, Secretary, Freeway, House of 1, 000 Corpses, Hedwig, Can't Hardly Wait, Empire Records, The City of Lost Children

Music: Kristin Hersh, PJ Harvey, Liz Phair, Portishead, Ruby, The Silver Jews, Hefner, The Moldy Peaches, Fiona Apple, Ani Difranco, Bright Eyes, The Smiths, Concrete Blonde, Leonard Cohen, Mira, Tonya Donnelly, Sleater Kinney, Violent Femmes, Fiest, Black Box Recorder, Joni Mitchell, Bob Dylan, Patti Smith

Food: Everything from spicy asian food to southern comfort food to vegetarian/tofu. I'm just not that into green peppers. And I have weird fruit allergies.

A place to write and something to write with, music, fun, freedom, friends, conversation. The spoiled american in me also demands a comfortable bed and ice cream.

Tectonic plates. And of course I spend a lot of time thinking about myself. Humans are vain creatures.

Out in the world or hanging out with friends. That's the most specific "typical" I have.

Your mom. Yeah, that's right. I said it.

Also: I almost always feel like I am secretly the weirdest person in the room.

You are a good conversationalist, openminded, like making new friends, and have met the spirit of adventure.