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shirtzwanker

45 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Dec 7, 2009
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Medicine
Income
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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I'm quiet until I get to know you - and then I hum a lot, which is potentially annoying. Just because I'm quiet doesn't mean I don't like you. It may, however, mean my thoughts are entirely elsewhere and I haven't heard anything you've said for the last 10 minutes.

I'm from Georgia but I've been westernized and I'm happy in San Francisco. I've lived in Los Angeles, Atlanta, and (briefly) NYC, and SF is the first place I've been that has felt like home since I left college in idyllic Athens, GA.

I don't make out with girls and I don't make out very often with boys. Even though I don't hook up that much, I do find guys fun to watch. Flirting is still a bit beyond me; cruising is not.

I buy way too many CDs. They're currently strewn across my bedroom floor and I've stepped on more than a few of them. It's not that I'm opposed to downloading music. I guess I'm just too accustomed to the non-virtual music store.

I like reading the books I was supposed to read in college and seeing movies. I volunteer every other weekend at a collectively owned movie theater in San Francisco.

Enough? Yes, enough.



I am abstracted, dissolute, and amused
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a public health drone.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Boggle, Trivial Pursuit, crosswords, spelling, editing. Catching on to what you're trying to tell me.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
1. "He doesn't have too much to say, does he?" 2. "And when he does talk he says 'ummm' a lot." 3. "Your desk is a phenomenal mess!"
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) BOOKS - these authors: jane austen, michael chabon, pete dexter, joan didion, faulkner, fitzgerald, forster, alan hollinghurst, henry james, david leavitt, edna o'brien, flannery o'connor, walker percy, philip pullman, jk rowling, peter taylor, robert penn warren, evelyn waugh, edith wharton, p.g. wodehouse, gene wolfe

(b) MOVIES - 3 women, airplane, all about eve, most things almodovar, the american astronaut, badlands, being john malkovich, billy liar, cabaret, chinatown, come back to the 5 and dime jimmy dean, jimmy dean, the dead, female trouble, flesh, freeway, gloria, the godfather, happiness, life is sweet, the little foxes, nashville, pee wee's big adventure, the philadelphia story, postcards from the edge, a room with a view, the royal tenenbaums, rushmore, shortcuts, sophie's choice, velvet goldmine, waiting for guffman, waking life

(c) MUSIC - the b52s, the beatles, big star, blur, carla bozulich, kate bush, calexico, johnny cash, cat power, manu chao, vic chesnutt, fairport convention, fischerspooner, fleetwood mac, stephen foster, the glands, the gourds, emmylou harris (very nearly an obsession), billie holiday, joan jett, george jones, the knitters, loretta lynn, magnetic fields, kate and anna mcgarrigle, willie nelson, mary margaret o'hara, yoko ono, gram parsons, pavement, the pixies, iggy pop, prokoviev, pylon, queen, rem, jane siberry, nina simone, elliott smith, patti smith, the smiths, the "rushmore," "waking life," and "velvet goldmine" soundtracks, spoon, sufjan stevens, uncle tupelo, caetano veloso, martha wainwright, rufus wainwright, dinah washington, gillian welch, hank williams, x, yo la tengo

(d) FOOD - mostly an eat-to-live kind of guy, but warm, moist chocolate cake topped with vanilla ice cream does get my panties wet.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. singing, humming, whistling 2. occasional travel 3. bookstores 4. corrective lenses 5. coffee 6. laughing
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to do next... I would like to be working in Africa before I turn 40. I'd also like to go to grad school. I'd also like to make more money and actually afford to live in this ridiculously expensive city - which would probably mean sacrificing those first two ideas and going to work for a biotech company instead.

On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
(a) with friends, watching a movie or drinking/boywatching or seeing a band, (b) at home, catching up on New Yorker short stories or reading a sci-fi novel that I'll never be able to discuss with friends, or (c) also at home, playing on the internet into the wee hours.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 29–76
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
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you'd care to declare a common interest.