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shompers

39 M Seattle, WA

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 5″ (1.96m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Not at all
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other, and laughing about it
Sign
Gemini
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Management
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A few random things not in an actual paragraph: I'm generally pretty happy, I currently work in organizational development but before that worked in dispute resolution, I read a lot, go to the gym some, paint, went to school a bunch, never married, have some tattoos, am more interested in compassion than judgement, but I do plenty of both, I love spending a weekend at La Push, I'm both pretty serious and an Fing goof off, now that I'm 39 it's starting to dawn on my that I'm in my 30s, my undergrad is in philosophy and I loved it but I'm also glad I stopped, I spend an equal amount of time with friends/family and time alone, I moved to Seattle in 91 but still feel like I'm a really a Californian, I'm generally pretty truthful but at the same time I'm try to be thoughtful about what's happening with the person listening and adjust. Okay well that's enough.
What I’m doing with my life
Working, painting, friendships/relationships, growing (up?)... I've not much idea where it's all going but it's all pretty good. I have a fairly busy life and I'm pretty much on even footing.
I’m really good at
I can bowl well, in fact the only trophy I've ever received was for bowling.
I make a killer mac'n cheese.
Making fun of myself. Telling crude jokes.
Talking with strangers. I really like talking to strangers.
Listening, though I had to learn how to do that.
Letting the dishes pile up.
The first things people usually notice about me
Height most likely. Sarcasm too. I'll ask around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Food: My favorite restaurant in Seattle is Bastille. I think I could live there.
Books: William James, One Hundred Years of Solitude, Vonnegut, Brave New World, Invisible Man, Howard Bloom, and a bunch of other stuff. I'm currently reading a book called Quantum Enigma.
Movie: My favorite movie of all time is Big Trouble in Little China.
Music: Pretty much just EDM all the time.
The six things I could never do without
People. People are what's it about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Mostly just whatever is currently happening or day dreaming about the future. I actually don't like the latter so when I catch myself doing it I stop. And truth be told I spend a lot of time thinking about certainty and living in the unknown.
On a typical Friday night I am
Maybe dinner with my uncles or friends, home in my pjs watching netflix. Whatever it is I'm chillen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I don't really like filling out profiles. And I'm not PNW outdoorsy. I'm normal outdoorsy.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 29–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Because you want to. There is no list of criteria. If you want to send a message, send it.