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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 29-40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21
6' 5" (1.96m)
Body Type
Not at all
Other but it’s not important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but might want them
English (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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A few random things not in an actual paragraph: I'm generally pretty happy, I read a lot, go to the gym some, paint, went to school a bunch, never married, have some tattoos, I currently work in organizational development, before that worked in public policy dispute resolution, am more interested in compassion than judgement, but I do plenty of both, I love spending a weekend at La Push, I'm both pretty serious and an Fing goof off, now that I'm 39 it's starting to dawn on me that I'm in my 30s, I spend an equal amount of time with friends/family and time alone, I moved to Seattle in 91 but still feel like I'm a really a Californian, I'm part serious grown up and part 14 year old goofoff, I'm generally pretty truthful, I try to be thoughtful about what's happening with the person listening and adjust. Okay well that's enough.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working, painting, friendships/relationships, growing... I like that I don't know what the future will be. I have a fairly busy life and I'm on even footing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I can bowl well, in fact the only trophy I've ever received was for bowling.
I make a killer mac'n cheese.
Making fun of myself. Telling crude jokes.
Talking with strangers. I really like talking to strangers.
Letting the dishes pile up.
Not being a sports fan. With the fever pitch lust for the hawks everywhere, I feel compelled to say that I am not a sports fan until we a. get the sonics back or b. get a hockey team. Till then, mmph. If we get the sonics back I will sell my left foot for season tickets.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Height most likely. Sarcasm too. I'll ask around.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Food: My favorite restaurant in Seattle is Bastille. I think I could live there.
Books: William James, Gabriel Garvia Marquez, Vonnegut, Huxley, Ralph Ellison, Howard Bloom, Herman Hesse, and a bunch of other stuff. I'm currently reading a book called Quantum Enigma.
Movie: My favorite movie of all time is Big Trouble in Little China.
Music: Pretty much just EDM all the time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
People. People are what's it about.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Mostly just whatever is currently happening or day dreaming about the future. I actually don't like the latter so when I catch myself doing it I stop. And truth be told I spend a lot of time thinking about certainty and living in the unknown.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Maybe dinner with my uncles or friends, home in my pjs watching netflix. Whatever it is I'm chillen.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't really like filling out profiles. And I'm not PNW outdoorsy. I'm normal outdoorsy.
You should message me if
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Because you want to. There is no other criteria for you to send a message. If you want to send a message, send it. If I like you I will reply. If I don't I'll probably reply anyway thanking you. I'll probably like you if you seem... well obviously smart and attractive, but please also like yourself. Don't be afraid of yourself. I probably want you, not whoever it is you think you should be. Also ladies, I know you all are notorious for only hittin it and quittin it, but I'm looking for more substance than that.