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33 F San Francisco, CA

I’m looking for

  • Men who like women
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 5:35am
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
When drinking
Judaism, and laughing about it
Graduated from Ph.D program
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t want kids
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I'm part homebody, part explorer.

I have a little dog training and care business and do a lot of work with the SF SPCA and Muttville Senior Dog Rescue. My hands are meat scented.

I love to get dirty - with fuzzy creatures, in my garden, camping and hiking - but I also adore pretty dresses and girly crafty stuff.

I put veggies in peoples' lives.

I love the city but have big dreams of someday having a little ranch with goats and chickens where I can make cheese and rescue a dozen dogs...

I take naps. I vote. I've spent entirely too much time in central america. I sew. I think every dog deserves a bandana. I read.

I lived many years on the East Coast for which I was rewarded unceremoniously with a Ph.D. in a spectacularly useless academic subject.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moving forward.

Traveling - especially to places no one else seems to be interested in going for some mystifying reason. Last year was Ethiopia. This year, Serbia and Montenegro. Wish I could do a whole lot more...

I really want to go backpacking. I've never been and no one I know wants to go. Take me backpacking?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Saying things i shouldn't.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The big ol' smile on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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an endless list. currently reading: wharton's house of mirth (strangely freaking poignant) and beautiful maria of my soul by oscar hijuelos. recently finished (and enjoyed): kavalier and clay, munro's runaway, angle of repose, st lucy's home for girls raised by wolves.

Admittedly I watch too much tv. there's a lot of great stuff out there. and a whole lot of crap. i watch both.

I'm addicted to NPR and liberal political/social commentary podcasts like best of the left, the good fight, and slate stuff. Learning is fun.

i'll eat (and probably love) anything! except...i just stopped eating some things, beef and pork especially, for several different reasons involving environmental and industrial ethics and moral guilt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, tea, pets, dresses, passport, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
desensitization counter conditioning, radio as a tool of mass communication, maps, city parks. wondering if it's necessary to capitalize things in an internet dating profile.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Eating, drinking, and generally being merry.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i'm mildly obsessed with law and order (svu and criminal intent, specifically)
You should message me if
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you read. you understand sarcasm. you are not allergic to cats. you want to explore things with me.

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