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shopar

34 San Francisco, CA Woman

Woman

I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 32–40
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 6:40am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 4″ (1.63m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Smokes
When drinking
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Judaism, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from Ph.D program
Job
Other
Income
Status
Single
Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Italian (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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Once upon a time I was an anthropologist. I worked with indigenous communities and spent half my time in Central America and Mexico.

Now I own a small business and do a lot of work with local dog shelters and rescue organizations.

Someday I hope to either do international disaster aid relief or have a little ranch that I can homestead the crap out of. Or both. Preferably both.

Someone told me this profile makes me sound a little Mother Theresa-y. I assure you that's the last thing I am. I am passionate about things that matter. I'm also a hedonist. And a contradiction, apparently.
What I’m doing with my life
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Moving forward.

Traveling - especially to places no one else seems to be interested in going for some mystifying reason. Last two years were Ethiopia and Serbia/Bosnia. This year Greenland. I could do a whole lot more...

I really want to go backpacking. I've never been and no one I know wants to go. Take me backpacking?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Reading too much, naps, snuggling fuzzy creatures, eating all the things, building a fire, hiking.
The first things people usually notice about me
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The big ol' smile on my face.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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an endless list. currently reading: mccarthy's all the pretty horses. Recently finished and enjoyed dissident gardens, white teeth...a constellation of vital phenomena is the best book I've read all year.

Admittedly I watch too much tv. there's a lot of great stuff out there. and a whole lot of crap. i watch both.

I'm addicted to NPR and liberal political/social commentary podcasts like best of the left, the good fight, and slate stuff. Learning is fun.

i'll eat (and probably love) anything! i did just stop eating some things, beef and pork especially, for several different reasons involving environmental/drought concerns, industrial ethics and moral guilt.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books, tea, pets, dresses, passport, friends.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Drought and water conservation, my compost bin, getting out of sf, tiny houses and storage container houses, what it would really be like to work in international aid/disaster relief
You should message me if
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Seeking:
Reader
Sarcasm
Dream of the outdoors
Travel obsession
The employed
Current events devourer
Informational sign enjoyer

Or just a cool guy.