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61 Chicago, IL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 56–66
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:39pm
5′ 3″ (1.60m)
Body Type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
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My on-line alias refers to a habit of spontaneously bursting into song as the spirit moves me. You'll have to trust that this is actually a good thing.

I'm working hard and thinking about what I will be doing in retirement (still a few years away). It's a strange and exciting time of life - I feel smarter, more confident, less concerned about trivial matters.

It’s hard for me to describe myself in this forum…I’m much more comfortable having a real conversation. I can adapt to most social situations with a quick wit and the ability to make others feel at ease. I’m a fiercely loyal friend – dependable, compassionate and empathetic. There’s much more and I look forward to sharing my story.

I have no laundry list describing my ideal relationship. I am not interested in finding a man with identical interests. Some common ground is important but I enjoy being exposed to new ideas and experiences. The main qualities I seek are basic - intelligence, humor, integrity, kindness, passion, and the ability to say "I don't know", "I was wrong" and "I'm sorry" when appropriate.
I’m really good at
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conversation and making people laugh
The first things people usually notice about me
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my clever and quick wit
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I have eclectic taste in music - jazz, classic rock, Cole Porter, crooners past and present, blues. Radio - WXRT and NPR.
Movies - all different genres...including indies, documentaries and foreign films. I love a good laugh including Monty Python, Woody Allen, Mel Brooks. I don't care for horror or sci-fi but like action and suspense.
TV - Bill Maher, Daily Show, Colbert Report, Modern Family, Key and Peele, Masterpiece Mysteries. I've recently Netflixed my way through Dexter, House of Cards, 6 Feet Under and Homeland.
Books - I would be lost without reading. While I mostly read fiction, I am drawn to authors and stories that make me pause, reflect, and repeat key passages that move me.
Food - I'm happy to be in a city with so many's hard to pick a favorite cuisine. I'm usually game for trying new foods but medium spicy is my preference. I try to eat healthy meals/snacks but not exclusively - I definitely have favorite treats and comfort foods. Cooking is not one of my gifts.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
These are not really things I could never do without...rather things I prefer having in my life - friends, laughter, dancing, sunrises over the lake, finding a great bargain, my dog
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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There are many private things I prefer to share after knowing someone beyond this site. Though not terribly private, one thing I will admit...I enjoy being totally silly when least expected - these moments are always spontaneous and often appreciated by those who can also be silly or wish they could.
You should message me if
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Get in touch if you are interested in knowing more, you are neither too young or too old, you live within a reasonable distance, and you understand that if I visited your profile and didn't send a note - it doesn't necessarily mean I'm not interested. We're all on this site to meet someone special - I'm open to possibilities and evolved enough to know that relying only on first impressions can lead to many missed opportunities.