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showitdefro

29 M Brooklyn, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 18
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
Asian, Black, Indian, White, Other
Height
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
Sometimes
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hello...

I guess this is the elevator pitch...so, well, check out my pics...

All checked out? You must still be curious. Don't be a victim of mamihlapinatapai (awesome word), send me a message. "mr right now" or the improbable "mr right" are both welcome.

My sense of humour is a tad wicked, when i cut loose on the dancefloor or belt out a tune it has been erm...somewhat memorable. I hopefully get through most things with my dignity in tact or at least repairable.
Case study A: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=16w5rf73Zjw

Behavioural economist Dan Ariely argues:
"Online dating is, unremittingly miserable. The main problem is that online dating sites assume that if you've seen a photo, got a guy's inside-leg measurement and star sign, BMI index and electoral preferences, you're all set to get it on à la Marvin Gaye, right? Wrong. They think that we're like digital cameras, that you can describe somebody by their height and weight and political affiliation and so on. But it turns out people are much more like wine. When you taste the wine, you could describe it, but it's not a very useful description. But you know if you like it or don't. And it's the complexity and the completeness of the experience that tells you if you like a person or not. And this breaking into attributes turns out not to be very informative"...

So i try to take more chances and hope the magic happens.
What I’m doing with my life
I work, rest and play like everyone else.
However, currrently, I am eating out a lot more, going to the theatre a lot more (member at The Public etc), indulging in arts (member at Brooklyn Museum etc), going to the gym (erm, sometimes...NYSC), falling short on my NPR and TED talks, getting into my bushwick a lot more.
Meeting new people and connecting with old.
I’m really good at
Exploring NYC; trying to go to new places all the time.
12 hour brunches.
Sass, laughing, spontaneity, overworking, adding a little spice, staying calm, improvising, honesty, committing, procrastinating, listening, talking, getting out and doing something new, playing devils advocate.
Hibernating in the winter (this plays into my cubbish potential more than I would like)...there is a real art to it...getting the right food, music, drinks, movies and serious shnuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
my glasses, the smile, the accent, the beard, hair...probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I think a lot of this can depend on timing and mood etc but...

My celebration book: it's a book full of messages from birthdays and new years eves over the years - i prefer it to people giving me cards.

Gone with the Wind, Cinema Paradiso, Serial Mom, All About Eve gives a sense of my taste.

I have been quite lazy about music. I tend to use my friends spotify playlists at the moment. However that is a pretty rich mix including oldies, guilty pleasures and the broadest variety of new music.

Food...erm, just about everything. I mean it, whether it be grasshopper or crocodile, anything goes, as long as it is done well as opposed to well done. I love experimenting in the kitchen too. I tried veganism. It's bloody hard work, congrats to all those who do it full time.
The six things I could never do without
Apart from the obvious...
Cultures (plural intended)
Company
Seasons
Direction
Risk
Solitude
I spend a lot of time thinking about
who or what is next out there in the world to move me.

how to do better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Out. Having some me time. Depends...Was it payday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'll tie my laces with "bunny ears".
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
You are an intelligent, strong, well mannered, a little wild, a worldly character with a penchant for a multi-raced, multifacetedish, queer friendly, brit whose been in NYC for over 2 years, who works in celebration, lives in a lovely Bushwick apartment and sleeps nude.