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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 21–35
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Apr 29
Asian, Black, Indian, White, Other, —
5' 11" (1.80m)
Body Type
A little extra
Might want kids
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.

I guess this is the elevator, well, check out my pics...

All checked out? You must still be curious. Don't be a victim of mamihlapinatapai (awesome word), send me a message. "mr right now" or the improbable "mr right" are both welcome.

My sense of humour is a tad wicked, when i cut loose on the dancefloor or belt out a tune it has been erm...somewhat memorable. I hopefully get through most things with my dignity in tact or at least repairable.
Case study A:

Behavioural economist Dan Ariely argues:
"Online dating is, unremittingly miserable. The main problem is that online dating sites assume that if you've seen a photo, got a guy's inside-leg measurement and star sign, BMI index and electoral preferences, you're all set to get it on à la Marvin Gaye, right? Wrong. They think that we're like digital cameras, that you can describe somebody by their height and weight and political affiliation and so on. But it turns out people are much more like wine. When you taste the wine, you could describe it, but it's not a very useful description. But you know if you like it or don't. And it's the complexity and the completeness of the experience that tells you if you like a person or not. And this breaking into attributes turns out not to be very informative"...

So i try to take more chances and hope the magic happens.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I work, rest and play like everyone else.
However, currrently, I am eating out a lot more, going to the theatre a lot more (member at The Public etc), indulging in arts (member at Brooklyn Museum etc), going to the gym (erm, sometimes...NYSC), falling short on my NPR and TED talks, getting into my bushwick a lot more.
Meeting new people and connecting with old.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Exploring NYC; trying to go to new places all the time.
12 hour brunches.
Sass, laughing, spontaneity, overworking, adding a little spice, staying calm, improvising, honesty, committing, procrastinating, listening, talking, getting out and doing something new, playing devils advocate.
Hibernating in the winter (this plays into my cubbish potential more than I would like)...there is a real art to it...getting the right food, music, drinks, movies and serious shnuggling.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my glasses, the smile, the accent, the beard, hair...probably.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I think a lot of this can depend on timing and mood etc but...

My celebration book: it's a book full of messages from birthdays and new years eves over the years - i prefer it to people giving me cards.

Gone with the Wind, Cinema Paradiso, Serial Mom, All About Eve gives a sense of my taste.

I have been quite lazy about music. I tend to use my friends spotify playlists at the moment. However that is a pretty rich mix including oldies, guilty pleasures and the broadest variety of new music.

Food...erm, just about everything. I mean it, whether it be grasshopper or crocodile, anything goes, as long as it is done well as opposed to well done. I love experimenting in the kitchen too. I tried veganism. It's bloody hard work, congrats to all those who do it full time.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Apart from the obvious...
Cultures (plural intended)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
who or what is next out there in the world to move me.

how to do better.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Out. Having some me time. Depends...Was it payday?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'll tie my laces with "bunny ears".
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are an intelligent, strong, well mannered, a little wild, a worldly character with a penchant for a multi-raced, multifacetedish, queer friendly, brit whose been in NYC for over 2 years, who works in celebration, lives in a lovely Bushwick apartment and sleeps nude.