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23 F Oakland, CA

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Today – 7:17am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Pronouns: They/Their. I don't identify as a woman so please don't address me as such. Queer and afab agender stoner who is into: social justice, film, music, radicalized healthcare and mental health, unlearning dominator culture, non-hierarchical pedagogy, volunteering at the Berkeley Free Clinic, prison abolishment, anti-assimilationist and anti-capitalist politics, examining privilege and institutionalized oppression(s).

I spent the past few years hopping around schools studying film but I switched my major to women and gender studies. I'm somewhat of an introvert but I love collaborating with people on music, film, photography, crafts, outdoor work etc. I spend a lot of time thinking about appropriate names for dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm majoring in women and gender studies and minoring in human sexuality at SFSU. I hope to work in the field of sex education with an emphasis on social justice and intersectional feminism after university. I was accepted into a rigorous training program this summer at the Berkeley Free Clinic to become a Hepatitis & HIV tester and counselor.

I play bass guitar and jam with friends whenever possible. I mainly play punk and sludge sounding stuff. I like doing crafts, I've made some little stuff recently like banners, candles and wire wrapped jewelry. Presently, most of my free time is spent knitting hats while watching really bad television. Cooking is a really cathartic activity for me. I cook vegetarian and vegan foods and I'm always more inclined to cook with others. I didn't go camping much when i was younger but i've recently had a strong interest in it. I would love to spend a lot of time camping in the future. But at the end of the day I love watching the x-files with my bong (The Krampus) in the tub.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bret Easton Ellis, Joan Roughgarden, Charles Burns, Kate Bornstein, Against Equality, Julio Cortazar, bell hooks, adrian tomine, The Walking Dead, Angela Davis, Haruki Murakami, Alice Bag, Dean Spade, Maurice Sendak, Swamp Thing, Miranda July, Blankets, Kurt Vonnegut, Joan Didion, Sweet Tooth, Hollywood Babylon, Nate Powell, Arkham Asylum, Alien Vs Predator

Ingmar Bergman, David Lynch, Wong Kar-wai, John Waters, The Watermelon Woman, Dead Alive, Roberto Rossellini, Wes Anderson, Predators, Gregg Araki, The Evil Dead trilogy, Studio Ghibli, Miranda July, Bound, Excision, Let the Right One In, We Need to Talk about Kevin, Battle Royale, 28 Days Later, The Return of the Living Dead, the Alien franchise, Ju Dou, Man With a Movie Camera

Tales From the Crypt, The Sopranos, Metalocalypse, Twin Peaks, Moral Orel, Sealab 2021, The Venture Bros., The X-Files, Buffy, Angel, The Twilight Zone, Adventure Time, Futurama, Simpsons (seasons 1-8), Planet Earth, Bob's Burgers, Strangers With Candy, Freaks and Geeks, Orange is the New Black, Doomsday Preppers, Paranormal Witness, Daria, King of the Hill

Fucked Up, The Marked Men, Sleater-Kinney, Kylesa, Sourpatch, Davilla 666, Suffix, The Younger Lovers, White Lung, Swearin', The Bags, Beach House, Radiator Hospital, Ragana, The Nerves, Trashwomen, Deftones, Weedeater, Galaxie 500, Black Tambourine, Trash Talk, Bright Eyes, Lemuria, Shady Hawkins, Jawbreaker, Shoppers, Go Sailor, Jenny Lewis and the Watson Twins, Watercolor Paintings, The Boy Who Could Fly, Los Crudos, Peligro Social, Mellakka, Permanent Ruin, Coke Bust, Rolo Tomassi, Loma Prieta, The Dicks, Tragedy, The Ronettes, Naked Raygun, The Adverts, Daft Punk, Dinosaur Jr., Hunx and His Punx, Regan Youth, Fall of Efrafa, Riistetyt, Neon Piss, Rudimentary Peni, Hot Snakes, Shook Ones, This is my Fist, Nu Sensae, Waxahatchee, Totalitär, Punch, Choking Victim, Ruleta Russa, Young Governor, Los Saicos, Limp Wirst, Lightning Bolt, Crystal Castles, Witch Hunt, Terry Malts, Synthetic ID, Pity Sex, Shannon and The Clams, Ovens, Paul Baribeau, OFF!, Orca Team, Why?, Japanther, Patsy Cline, Abner Jay, The Undertones, Dick Dale, Nana Grizol, The Sword, Antwon

If it's vegetarian or vegan i'll probably eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
DBT skills
queer identity
authentic relationships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my privilege and how much space I take up as a white person gentrifying Oakland.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show, knitting, swimming or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have a lot of social anxiety and i'm stoned on this site 99% of the time.
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
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you like working on creative and outdoor projects, can give me access to a dark room, you want to smoke weed in the mountain view cemetery, or in the redwoods, watch hella movies/documentaries, go on day trips, get stoned and play settlers of catan, collaborate on music, cook and/or eat spicy foods