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23 F Oakland, CA

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Last Online
Yesterday – 11:58pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Mostly vegan
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
Pronouns: They/Their. I don't identify as a woman so please don't address me as such. I'm a queer agender stoner who is interested in social justice, film, music, race and gender theory, sex-positivity, sex education, examining privilege and race, institutionalized racism and class, trans and queer issues. I spent the past few years hopping around schools studying film but I switched my major to women and gender studies. I'm somewhat of an introvert but I love collaborating with people on music, film, photography, crafts, outdoor work etc. I tend to drift towards animals during parties and drunkenly petting their tummies. I would describe myself as level-headed, smart, communicative, a loyal friend, sweet, patient, funny, accepting and kind. I really care about communication and mindfulness in all of my relationships.
What I’m doing with my life
I'm majoring in women and gender studies and minoring in human sexuality at SFSU. I hope to work in the field of sex education with an emphasis on social justice and intersectional feminism after university. I also volunteer for Berkeley Builds Capacity.

I play bass guitar and jam with friends whenever possible. I mainly play punk and psychedelic sounding stuff. I'm often getting stoned and going to shows in the East Bay and San Francisco.I like doing crafts, I've made some little stuff recently like banners, candles and wire wrapped jewelry. Presently, most of my free time is spent knitting hats while watching really bad television. Cooking is a really cathartic activity for me. I cook vegetarian and vegan foods and I'm always more inclined to cook with others. I didn't go camping much when i was younger but i've recently had a strong interest in it. I would love to spend a lot of time camping in the future. But at the end of the day I love watching the x-files with my bong (The Krampus) in the tub.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Bret Easton Ellis, Joan Roughgarden, Charles Burns, Kate Bornstein, Julio Cortazar, bell hooks, Summer Blonde, The Walking Dead, Angela Davis, Haruki Murakami, Charles Bukowski, Maurice Sendak, Miranda July, Blankets, Kurt Vonnegut, Joan Didion, Sweet Tooth, Hollywood Babylon, Nate Powell, Arkham Asylum, Alien Vs Predator

Ingmar Bergman, David Lynch, Wong Kar-wai, John Waters, The Watermelon Woman, Dead Alive, Roberto Rossellini, Wes Anderson, Predators, Gregg Araki, The Evil Dead trilogy, Studio Ghibli, Miranda July, Bound, Excision, Let the Right One In, We Need to Talk about Kevin, Battle Royale, 28 Days Later, The Return of the Living Dead, the Alien franchise, Ju Dou, Lord of the Rings, Man With a Movie Camera

Tales From the Crypt, The Sopranos, Metalocalypse, Twin Peaks, Moral Orel, The X-Files, Buffy, Angel, The Twilight Zone, Adventure Time, Futurama, Planet Earth, Doomsday Preppers, Paranormal Witness, Daria, King of the Hill, Mysteries at the Museum.

Fucked Up, The Marked Men, Sleater-Kinney, Kylesa, Sourpatch, Davilla 666, Suffix, The Younger Lovers, White Lung, Swearin', The Bags, Beach House, Radiator Hospital, Ragana, The Nerves, Trashwomen, Deftones, Galaxie 500, Black Tambourine, Trash Talk, Bright Eyes, Lemuria, Shady Hawkins, Jawbreaker, Shoppers, Go Sailor, Jenny Lewis and the Watson Twins, Watercolor Paintings, The Boy Who Could Fly, Los Crudos, Peligro Social, Mellakka, Permanent Ruin, Coke Bust, Rolo Tomassi, Loma Prieta, The Dicks, Tragedy, The Ronettes, Naked Raygun, The Adverts, Daft Punk, Dinosaur Jr., Hunx and His Punx, Regan Youth, Fall of Efrafa, Riistetyt, Neon Piss, Rudimentary Peni, Hot Snakes, Shook Ones, This is my Fist, Nu Sensae, Waxahatchee, Totalitär, Punch, Choking Victim, Ruleta Russa, Young Governor, Los Saicos, Limp Wirst, Lightning Bolt, Crystal Castles, Witch Hunt, Terry Malts, Synthetic ID, Pity Sex, Shannon and The Clams, Ovens, Paul Baribeau, OFF!, Orca Team, Big Kids, Why?, Japanther, Patsy Cline, Abner Jay, The Undertones, Dick Dale, Nana Grizol, The Sword, Antwon

If it's vegetarian or vegan i'll probably eat it.
The six things I could never do without
DBT skills
queer identity
authentic relationships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
my privilege and how much space I take up as a white person gentrifying Oakland.
On a typical Friday night I am
at a show, doing something crafty, swimming or working
I’m looking for
  • Everybody
  • Ages 18–30
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex
You should message me if
you like working on creative and outdoor projects, can give me access to a dark room, you want to smoke weed in the mountain view cemetery, or in the redwoods, watch hella movies/documentaries, go on day trips, get stoned and play settlers of catan, collaborate on music, cook and/or eat spicy food