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24 Oakland, CA Agender


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  • Ages 18–30
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  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:58am
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and likes cats

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My self-summary
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Pronouns: They/Their. I don't identify as a woman so please don't address me as such. Queer afab agender stoner who is into: social justice, film, music, radicalized healthcare and mental health, accountability, transparency, unlearning dominator culture, non-hierarchical pedagogy, the Berkeley Free Clinic, prison abolishment, anti-assimilationist and anti-capitalist politics, examining privilege and institutionalized oppression(s).

I spent the past few years hopping around schools studying film but I switched my major to women and gender studies. I'm somewhat of an introvert but I love collaborating with people on music, film, photography, crafts, outdoor work etc. I spend a lot of time thinking about appropriate names for dogs.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm majoring in women and gender studies and minoring in human sexuality at SFSU. I also work as a janitor and Hepatitis counselor at the Berkeley Free Clinic.

I play bass guitar and jam with friends whenever possible. I mainly play punk and sludge sounding stuff. I like doing crafts, I've made some little stuff recently like banners, candles and wire wrapped jewelry. Presently, most of my free time is spent knitting things while watching really bad television. Cooking is a really cathartic activity for me. I cook vegetarian and vegan foods and I'm always more inclined to cook with others. I didn't go camping much when i was younger but i've recently had a strong interest in it. I would love to spend a lot of time camping in the future. But at the end of the day I love watching the x-files with my bong (The Krampus) in the tub.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Bret Easton Ellis, Joan Roughgarden, Charles Burns, Kate Bornstein, Against Equality, Julio Cortazar, bell hooks, adrian tomine, The Walking Dead, Angela Davis, Haruki Murakami, Alice Bag, Dean Spade, Maurice Sendak, Swamp Thing, Miranda July, Blankets, Kurt Vonnegut, Joan Didion, Sweet Tooth, Hollywood Babylon, Nate Powell

Ingmar Bergman, David Lynch, Wong Kar-wai, Studio Ghibli, Bound, Excision, Let the Right One In, Battle Royale, 28 Days Later, The Return of the Living Dead, the Alien franchise, Ju Dou, Man With a Movie Camera.

Tales From the Crypt, The Sopranos, Metalocalypse, Twin Peaks, Moral Orel, Sealab 2021, The Venture Bros., The X-Files, Buffy, Angel, The Twilight Zone, Adventure Time, Futurama, Simpsons, Planet Earth, Bob's Burgers, Strangers With Candy, Freaks and Geeks, Doomsday Preppers, Paranormal Witness, Daria, King of the Hill

Fucked Up, Sleater-Kinney, Kylesa,, The Younger Lovers, The Bags, Beach House, Radiator Hospital, Ragana, The Nerves, Weedeater, Galaxie 500, Black Tambourine, Jawbreaker, Shoppers, Go Sailor, Jenny Lewis and the Watson Twins, Permanent Ruin, The Dicks, Tragedy, Dinosaur Jr., Fall of Efrafa, Riistetyt, Hot Snakes, Shook Ones, This is my Fist, Nu Sensae, Punch, Choking Victim, Ruleta Russa, Young Governor, Limp Wirst, Lightning Bolt, Crystal Castles, Ovens, Paul Baribeau, Orca Team, Why?, Patsy Cline, Abner Jay, The Undertones, Dick Dale, Nana Grizol

If it's vegetarian or vegan i'll probably eat it.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
DBT skills
queer identity
authentic relationships
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
my privilege, my occupation on Ohlone land and how much space I take up as a white person gentrifying Oakland.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
at a show, knitting, swimming or working
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have a lot of social anxiety and i'm stoned on this site 99% of the time.
You should message me if
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you like working on creative and outdoor projects, can give me access to a dark room, you want to smoke weed in the mountain view cemetery, or in the redwoods, watch hella movies/documentaries, go on day trips, get stoned and play settlers of catan, collaborate on music, cook and/or eat spicy foods