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shybear426

34 / M / gay / Available

Knoxville, Tennessee

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 5" (1.65m).
Body Type
A little extra
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism but not too serious about it
Sign
Taurus and it’s fun to think about
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Clerical / Administrative
Income
Kids
Doesn’t want children
Pets
Likes dogs and Owns cats
Languages
English

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I am shy, dependable, and genuine.

My Self-Summary

I love walking or hiking when I get a chance. However, I am more of a homebody. I consider myself very introverted. I find it hard to meet people in crowds. I tend to do better in one-on-one conversations. I absolutely adore 80's music and dance music, and am a huge fan of most horror movies, particularly the classic 80's slashers, and just about anything with zombies. I am also hopelessly addicted to reality shows. It's really hard to try to describe myself outside of my interests, (as I even confuse myself sometimes!), but I'm a lot more complex than what you see on the surface.

Complex, yes, but the greatest complexity I've had the good fortune to ponder and explore for the past 10 years, and intend on doing so for the rest of my life! I love you, Monkey! Other fellas out there, this one is a catch indeed! I might share, but if you try to steal him completely, or if you are a douchebag to him, I will kick you in the head!

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What I’m doing with my life

I am in a 10 year relationship with the love of my life. Recently, we decided to open up our relationship and make friends and date other guys with permission. If you are open-minded to this situation, feel free to chat me up! It would be nice to meet some other cool guys. :)

I recently found out that I am diabetic, and have started to make major changes in my life in terms of my diet and health. It has been a little tough so far, but I am really proud of my progress, and am glad I am taking steps toward a healthier life.

I’m really good at

When it comes to horror movie trivia, I am your man. I'm really good at being funny when I'm not trying to be (and not so great at it when I *am* trying!). I also think I'm really good at reading people, and really enjoy figuring out what makes people tick.

The first things people usually notice about me

I've been told by many people that I am the type of person that other people easily feel comfortable around. I may be a bit shy at first, but the more you get to know me, the more you'll see of my goofy side.

He doesn't just make other people feel comfortable. He also has some strange, indescribable, irresistable mojo that is one part boyish charm, a dash of devilish sass, and a whole lot of other mystery ingredients that make him impossible not to adore. If he could bottle it and sell it, he'd be rich (and he'd better share the profits if he manages to do so!).

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My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I don't really read that much at all, unless Entertainment Weekly counts. ;) Of course, as already mentioned, I love horror movies (among others). I also really enjoy films by Kevin Smith, John Waters, and David Lynch. As far as TV goes, I am currently watching Survivor and The Amazing Race, and have been a fan of both shows for several years. I also really love Big Brother, Millionaire Matchmaker, Kathy Griffin: My Life on the D List, The Real Housewives of Atlanta, The Real Housewives of New Jersey, Project Runway, Top Chef, and lots of others.

When it comes to food, I love Italian food, Mexican Food, and well, lots of food in general. It's the Taurus in me, I suppose! I am really starting to get into a lot more healthy alternatives, too, and since the hubby is such a good cook, it makes it a little easier!

The six things I could never do without

There are few things I couldn't do without, but it's hard to imagine my life without my husbear, my kitties, and a TV!!!

I spend a lot of time thinking about

What's for dinner. What's going to happen on my shows this week! The future and what it holds.

On a typical Friday night I am

Usually relaxing at home, watching something scary, and/or chatting online. Maybe having a drink if I'm feeling wild.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I'm really scared of octopi and other sea creatures.

You should message me if

You are a fellow horror and/or reality TV fan, because we'd have a lot to talk about! Also, if anything else about me catches your eye, or if you'd like to help bring this shy guy out of his shell! Give a chat with me a try, and see what you can figure out about me! ;)