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30 San Francisco, CA Genderqueer, Cis Man

Genderqueer, Cis Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Aug 26
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Open relationship
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)
My self-summary
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traveling, makin music,

i am not an -ist and i don't like -isms

i have a wonderful partner. we're poly. i identify as queer(look it up if you're shrugging). i'm mostly on here to meet other queer folks but i'm really open to whatever. Gender and sexuality binary sucks but okcupid doesn't have queer as an option. meh. I'm over it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I make music, spend time with friends. I want to meet new people and check out the City. I'm still getting my bearings. I like watching movies and going out to hear music. Dive bars and House clubs are a plus!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking, singing and writing songs, making people feel good, sparking conversation with strangers
The first things people usually notice about me
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why don't you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A small but comprehensive sample of my interests:
Assata, Danny Champion of the World, LOTR, and Guns, Germs, And Steel

Bicycle Thief, Collapse, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Do the Right Thing

Music: Bowie, Stevie, Beatles, Dancehall, The Roots, Free and/or improvised and/or noise music, Erykah, Radiohead and Drum and Bass

Everything except really cruel shit like veal and foie gras
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my brain intact, the ability to move, and a decent pair of shoes to roam in. The other three I could do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how rotten the world can be and how great all at once, and lots of
similar contradictions.
also sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
on a roof somwhere talking politics and taking in the landscape.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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anything just ask.
You should message me if
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you feel so inclined