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30 Chicago, IL Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 20–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 22
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Atheism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Dropped out of university
Less than $20,000
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Poorly), Spanish (Poorly), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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workin, makin music, dealing with the cold.

i am not an -ist and i don't like -isms

i have a wonderful partner. we're poly. i identify as queer(look it up if you're shrugging). i'm mostly on here to meet other queer folks but i'm really open to whatever. Gender and sexuality binary sucks but okcupid doesn't have queer as an option. meh. I'm over it.
What I’m doing with my life
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I cook and serve in catering for money. The rest of the time I make music, spend time with friends and recreate in a variety of ways. I like watching movies and going out to hear music. I like wining and dining but also staying in and chilling.
I’m really good at
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cooking, singing and writing songs, making people feel good, sparking conversation with strangers
The first things people usually notice about me
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why don't you tell me
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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A small but comprehensive sample of my interests:
Assata, Danny Champion of the World, LOTR, and Guns, Germs, And Steel

Bicycle Thief, Collapse, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Do the Right Thing

Music: Bowie, Stevie, Beatles, Dancehall, The Roots, Free and/or improvised and/or noise music, Erykah, Radiohead and Drum and Bass

Everything except really cruel shit like veal and foie gras
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my brain intact, the ability to move, and a decent pair of shoes to roam in. The other three I could do without.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
how rotten the world can be and how great all at once, and lots of
similar contradictions.
also sex.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
could be homebodying
could be at a club rolling.
could be cooking for an over-priced gluttanous wedding reception of a marriage that's bound to fail.
could be driving around trying to find something to eat.
could be drinking on a roof somwhere talking politics and taking in the landscape.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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anything just ask.
You should message me if
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you feel so inclined