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shyjc

48 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Today – 1:33pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin
Height
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Religion
Catholicism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Other
Income
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Spanish (Fluently), Esperanto (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
This section is in constant turmoil

The most tender place in my heart is for strangers
I know it's unkind but my own blood is much too dangerous
Neko Case

The first symptom of love in a young man is shyness; the first symptom in a woman, it's boldness.
-Victor Hugo, poet, novelist and dramatist (1802-1885)

About Me:
People say I am funny, I like the letter Ñ, I enjoy tropical weather, Self Deprecation Rules, Hate the phrase "crossover," I like divey bars,
I can say "R con R cigarro, R con R barril, que rapido corren los carros cargados de azucar del ferrocarril."

Who I Want to Meet:
Single women who "roll their R's," strangers with candy, people who enjoy a good beer, my long lost children, my future first wife, people who enjoy a good conversation.
People from Madagascar, Sri Lanka, Cape Verde or even Rhode Island.
Funny, smart, witty women, who are not afraid to swear with a little mystery thrown in for good measure, you know the "artiste" type

I am Malleable, Dangerous, and Sarcastic.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to live in the moment
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I make great drinks. I enjoy talking. A lot. There is nothing like having a great conversation that trascends time and you suddenly realize that you have spend a good chunk of time getting lost in the magic of words.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I have no idea. ... Maybe my ... Nope. No idea.
But after talking with me, I'd say my sense of humor and my accent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'm a non-fiction reader. I'd have to say my favorites are anything by Eduardo Galeano and poetry books (preferably in spanish) .

Books:
20 Poemas de Amor Y Una Cancion Desesperada
Ex Libris
Something to Declare: Essays
On Borrowed Words: A Memoir of Language
Cavin & Hobbes
Me Talk Pretty One Day
Nosotros Decimos No
Popol Vuh
Julia Alvarez, Pablo Neruda, Gioconda Belli, Claribel Alegria, Roque Dalton, among others

Movies:
My Life As A Dog
Nuovo Cinema Paradiso
Better Off Dead
The End Of The Affair
Clerks
Tony Takitani
Amelie
Melvin Goes to Dinner
My Life Without Me
Elegy
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
Temporada de Patos

Music:
Tango (For the Sensuality an Melancholy)
I enjoy different types of Music
I am a big fan of KEXP
Mercedes Sosa (QEPD) Hasta siempre Negra!

Food
Pupusas, Pasta, Steak (extra points with some good Chimichurri)
The spicier the better
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Beer,
Coffee,
Poetry,
Sensuality,
Sex,
Music, (Ipod)
The sun
(A combination of all of the above describes paradise)
***Wow, so after careful consideration this list seems a bit Hedonistic and all about pleasure and satisfaction. Maybe i should remove some of them and replace them with friends, family, silence, my inner thoughts, love, and the moon. opinions?
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Darkness. My next poem. My childhood. Silence. Love. Sex. Hats.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Happy Hour with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I have pretty private things that I am unwilling to admit in a public forum.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
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Bored.
Needing Last Rites.
Want to laugh.
In search of answers.
Want to share a beer.
Por favor?
Or:

Do you find that this approach usually works, or, let me guess, you've never tried it before. In fact, you don't normally approach girls, am I right? The truth is that you're a quiet, sensitive type, but if I'm prepared to take a chance I might just get to know the inner you: witty, adventurous, passionate, loving, loyal, a little bit crazy, a little bit bad, but, hey, don't us girls just love that?
(Diane Trainspotting)