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shyvirago

25 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone

Honolulu, Hawaii

Her Details

Last Online
May 2, 2011
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
Body Type
Average
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Catholicism and laughing about it
Sign
Capricorn
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Student
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t want kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Speaks
English, Italian (Okay)

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My self-summary
I keep a lot of my thoughts to myself because some times I think in a "mean" way. I'm an extroverted introvert. Observing and analyzing come second nature to me and I'm generally inquisitive when meeting someone for the first time. Just don't expect me to do all the work in keeping up the conversation. No one likes talking to a blank canvas. I put a lot of thought into what I want and it's only when I want something badly that I will become absolutely tenacious until I get it.

I'm also honest. Treating people how you want to be treated isn't just for Sunday school, I react honestly because that is what I want and expect from other people. If you're an idiot, there's no point in wasting time with euphemisms. On the other hand, if you deserve a compliment I won't spare a breath nor adjective to describe the gloriousness of your achievement.

You may think I'm kidding about being a bitch but I'm not. Maybe they think I'm lying, maybe they think they're the 'special' one who can tame the shrew, I don't know, so here is your fair warning:
I do not simply rollover for the first cocky person that comes around. Just because I'm nice to you doesn't mean you're "in". It just means I haven't passed judgement on you.

There is little patience for whiners, idiots, pansy men, or weepy women. Save that for the movies please.

I am extroverted, passionate, and a bitch

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What I’m doing with my life
I enjoy the written word and am currently studying English. I'm also studying music, specifically voice.

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I’m really good at
Listening and observing.

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The first things people usually notice about me
Most people are intimidated when they first notice me. But I guess it would be the sarcastic expression on my face. Or my ass.

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Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Blu's Hanging by Lois Ann Yamanaka is certainly a favorite but like most people's favorites, it rotates with my mood.

I listen to showtunes a lot.

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The six things I could never do without
1. Food.
2. A true friend.
3. My family.
4. My computer.
5. My phone.
6. My wallet.

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I spend a lot of time thinking about
Three guesses.

The differences between aggressive and eager and why most people think the former equals the latter. It doesn't.

Why people nowadays take so much pride in celebrating mediocrity. "Johnny came in fifth place again? Yay!" Yeah no, Johnny needs to go and try other things he can be good at. Johnny might not be able to outrun your fat ass but if someone told him to try a different hobby he might turn out to be the one to cure cancer or some shit.

Also, along those lines, why can't parents discipline their damn kids? I know they're probably thinking, "Oh I won't do what my parents did to me." But they end up being TOO lenient on their kids. I have no problem with people who don't want to use corporeal punishment on their children but at least learn to be consistent and be stern when you need to be.
Too many times I've seen parents threaten their children only to give in to their child. If you say you're going to ground them, do it. If you say you're going to take away their toy, car, ipod, phone, then do it. This is why children walk all over their parents and why they think they can do the same to strangers which makes YOU look like a bad parent.
And really? Would it hurt to teach your child some damn manners? A five year old has no business demanding anything from me.

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On a typical Friday night I am
At home relaxing after a busy week.

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The most private thing I’m willing to admit
Showtunes wasn't enough?

I can never be with someone that I don't respect.

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I’m looking for
  • Girls who like girls
  • Ages 18-29
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends
You should message me if
If you can't handle honesty then don't bother. If you think you can handle me... you're welcome to try.

Also, if you send me a message please use the goddamn spell check. You're messaging an English major damnit. If you see the red squiggly line it means it's WRONG.

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