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shyvirago

25 / F / Bisexual / Seeing someone

Honolulu, Hawaii

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It really is that simple.

Nov 24, 2009

Ladies, if he doesn't ask you out move on. He's either not interested and you need to get over it or he's too much of a pansy to ask you and thus you're better off without him.

And if you know what you want then never let anyone tell you different. 

It's never worth it to settle. 

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Ladies, if he doesn't ask you out move on. He's either notinterested and you need to get over it or he's too much of a pansyto ask you and thus you're better off without him.

And if you know what you want then never let anyone tell youdifferent. 

It's never worth it to settle. 

It really is that simple.
An image of Mote_already Or- crazy as it may seem- you could try asking him out.

Mote_already commented on Nov 24, 2009

An image of bornyesterday That's a good way to miss out on good things. Don't be so heteronormative.

bornyesterday commented on Nov 24, 2009

An image of Diacritic If she's waiting for you to make a move then she's frigid and you're better off without her.

Diacritic commented on Nov 24, 2009

How is that missing out on a good thing!? If he didn't want it right from the get-go obviously, he didn't want it that badly, which means you're really not missing out on anything!? Come on people, understand gender psyche. If a dude asks a chick out obviously he wants her. A chick goes out with a dude and plays nice and flirts, obviously doesn't mind sleeping with him! It takes us 3 seconds to determine if we want to do someone, the rest is a matter of courage. I for one, want a dude with some balls, I don't want to have to man up for him. That's just WRONG.

A former user commented on Nov 25, 2009