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shyzaway

25 / F / straight / Single

Phoenix, Arizona

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I'm tired of this- Men need this advice

Guys who can not handle you not being interested in a mature manner.  You say you are not interested politely.  Or you use that excuse of being busy because you think that they can't really handle knowing the truth.....However, they insist if you are not interested to tell them straight out so, that there is no "game playing" as they like to call it.  So, you simply tell them I'm not interested or something along those lines because, that is what they asked you to do.  I'm tired of being so nice about it and then being told things like oh i'm so "shallow" or "I should be put on an island isolated from the world" just because, I don't want to go on a date with you.  Accept it and grow up and E-mail someone else.  If you keep getting rejection after rejection than take an honest brutal look at yourself and figure out what you are doing wrong or what it is about you that is turning girls off.  Another misconception I would like to touch on is this:  "Nice guys always finish last".  No they don't girls like nice guys and would love to actually date a nice guy.  The reality of it is this:  You are doing something else to turn the girl off.  It really isn't just because "you are a nice guy".  This also requires a dose of reality and looking into yourself about what you could be doing that is turning girls off time and time again.  Don't continue to put people down just because you can't figure out this whole "dating game"  It is yet another thing to add to your undesirable quality column.  Name calling is ridiculous  I can't say this enough: GROW UP!                     That is all for now :-)

Guys who can not handle you not being interested in a maturemanner.  You say you are not interested politely.  Or youuse that excuse of being busy because you think that they can'treally handle knowing the truth.....However, they insist if you arenot interested to tell them straight out so, that there is no "gameplaying" as they like to call it.  So, you simply tell themI'm not interested or something along those lines because, that iswhat they asked you to do.  I'm tired of being so nice aboutit and then being told things like oh i'm so "shallow" or "I shouldbe put on an island isolated from the world" just because, I don'twant to go on a date with you.  Accept it and grow up andE-mail someone else.  If you keep getting rejection afterrejection than take an honest brutal look at yourself and figureout what you are doing wrong or what it is about you that isturning girls off.  Another misconception I would like totouch on is this:  "Nice guys always finishlast".  No they don't girls like nice guys andwould love to actually date a nice guy.  The reality of it isthis:  You are doing something else to turn the girloff.  It really isn't just because "you are a nice guy". This also requires a dose of reality and looking into yourselfabout what you could be doing that is turning girls off time andtime again.  Don't continue to put people down just becauseyou can't figure out this whole "dating game"  It is yetanother thing to add to your undesirable quality column.  Namecalling is ridiculous  I can't say this enough: GROWUP!                    That is all for now :-)

I'm tired of this- Men need this advice

UNDER MY SKIN :-)

Let's talk about things that get under my skin shall we: Arrogent know it all people. The ones who are loud with their voice to try and over power you with their brilliant ideas.

Fake relationships that are totally commercial
when it's real you can see it in the eyes.


Guys who have on their profile under what iam doing with my life "making ladies smile, happy or anything similar..... You are not and noone believes that you actually arel so cut the corn off the cob thankyou :-)
Let's talk about things that get under my skin shall we: Arrogentknow it all people. The ones who are loud with their voice to tryand over power you with their brilliant ideas.

Fake relationships that are totally commercial
when it's real you can see it in the eyes.


Guys who have on their profile under what iam doing with my life"making ladies smile, happy or anything similar..... You are notand noone believes that you actually arel so cut the corn off thecob thankyou :-)
UNDER MY SKIN :-)
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