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siber508

52 / M / Straight / Single

Santa Rosa, California

His Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 1:02pm
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 9″ (1.75m).
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Mostly vegetarian
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism and laughing about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Has kids
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
A hard working guy loves outdoors and anything that sits between two wheels, non-motorized kind. My belief is simple - either you are growing and dying. Someday I want to grow up and be somebody. In the meantime, want to enjoy life and see what rest it will bring. I'm interested in having good sex and have a good time.
What I’m doing with my life
So what am I doing in my life - mostly I'm involved in running a business in between the times I'm riding a bike or enjoying the quiet times daydreaming of climbing a mountain or doing an epic ride.
I like to read - mostly non-fiction in business, humanity and politics. I love to learn and be stimulated in thoughts on why we do the things we do. Whatever I'm doing, it's gotta have meaning or purpose.

I actually think lot about what I'm going to do when I grow up. It feels like a second chapter of life has begun and looking forward to seeing what tomorrow brings. At the end of the day(as Brits say) in order to have meaning, it should be shared with the one you love.
I know I there is more to life than sitting around contemplating the meaning of life and feel that I still have the capacity(and I want to) to add some measure of value to someone else' life and thus adding to mine.

You probably can see a theme, learning and growing is very important and perhaps it was what I was missing in my marriage. I'm looking forward to finding a partner that will fulfill that need and someone whom I could make a difference in their life as well.
I’m really good at
Up to now, I would have said, being a good husband and a father but I think my pending divorce dispels that notion. I have had businesses and been involved in running them for most my life so I like to think I'm not bad at it. I'm a pretty good cyclist mostly because I can suffer better than most. Actually, I feel like most successes in my life came cause I persevered and was willing to go the distance. I revere "endurance" character and feel we discover and grow through the process.
The six things I could never do without
Good cup of coffee, a nice bike, my daughter and son(that counts as one), my sisters,my business, mountains(outdoors) to climb and lastly, goes without saying my mental and physical well being.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
about myself, not really. I think about lots of things including how I can be a better person on a personal level but how I can lead and inspire people at my business as well. I'm a bit of news junkie so spend quite a bit of time reading news sites, listening to podcasts while riding and just observing life, people so I can learn and grow from others.
On a typical Friday night I am
Now, I usually get home late from work so I enjoys watching movie or reading. Most of the time, there are long rides on Saturdays or a tradeshow to attend so it's a bit of respite before the weekend.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I like to think I know more than I really do
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 35–52
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Obviously, if you are interested. Even if you are not, maybe we could learn something. That sounds boring. Never mind, only if you want great sex. Just kidding.