Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There is worth in brevity so I am: artistic, athletic,
health-conscious, intuitive, intellectual, funny/goofy, quirky,
strong, spiritual, empathic, direct, intense, laid-back and
grounded yet driven and passionate about new ideas and creating
I value friendship, family, honesty, respect, reflection, personal
evolution, philosophy, rights, sexual freedom and fluidity, art,
music, freedom of expression.
What I’m doing with my life
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I simply love traveling. I identify as a world citizen and in most
circles am not proud of being an American-in case you are not
paying attention, we don't have a good track record over these past
I came to Australia to get my masters at University of Sydney in
Human Rights policy-there is plenty of abuses here in downunder
(see: Aboriginal land rights and "boat people") I am interested in
social justice, law, psychological impacts of unlawful detention
etc. I will be moving home to San Francisco after three years of
working in Australia and gaining a permanent residency visa, which
allows me to return to OZ whenever I want because having two
summers in a year ain't too shabby :-) For now, I want to plant
roots again and work by my family and friends in SF further
pursuing my interests in law, social justice & human rights.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
understanding people, laughing, traveling, resolving conflict,
sports, kissing, dancing for hours on end, singing, uniting people,
finding the humor in a hard situation, positivity and perspective.
I use to play soccer for the United States U-21 National Team and
went to Wake Forest in North Carolina to play in the ACC. I have
since had a few knee injuries that keeps me off the field intensely
but I still love the game and plan to coach in the future. If you
like the REAL football, we will probably have something to talk
about. I always try to strike a balance between my athletic and
The first things people usually notice about me
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vibrance, plethora of hats, vocality, smile, buff arms
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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too many to name. Nina Simone, Tribe Called Quest, Lupe Fiasco,
jazz, soul, rock, hip-hop funk and blues. I simply love listening
and playing music. I am a singer/songwriter and believe music is
the best healing medicine. If you are a musician lets play some
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the sun, the ocean, social and kinetic movement, friends and
family, music, avocado and burritos (Australia does not have good
mexican food and I miss Cali for this among many reasons)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
history and herstory
what I want to do next
the ocean, sea life and how we are destroying our oceans :-(
what is truly important to me in this short life
will I have a family of my own
how relative 'time' really is
social justice, racism and homophobia
good food and wine
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I like a variety of people. I identify as bisexual, which means
that I have had sex with both men and women and not necessarily at
the same time.
So, Kinsey introduced the sexuality spectrum (im a 3). We are all
on that spectrum and we all have our own sensualities, tastes and
tendencies. I have dated both men and women in the past and have
experienced the differences between them in many ways to form a
unique perspective on gender and love.
I am balanced in my male/female energies and desire to meet other
people who have explored these things as well. I want someone open,
knows what they want, does not mess around, is deep and committed
but open for adventure and personal freedom. I am still looking for
my life partner and making friends along the way. I want to meet a
man who is my opposite but compliments me too. I want to meet
someone who expands my world exponentially, would like a family of
their own and shares in these same values.
You should message me if
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you like my profile and think we could connect in a genuine way.
I've had many relationships in my life but am now looking for a
longer-term, deep connection with a grounded and loving man, who is
kind of a badass but doesn't know it-I still have not found my
partner in crime.
Please do not message me for threesomes or poly relationship
options because I am not interested. I am looking for a monogamous
relationship with a man, preferably intelligent, artistic,
athletic, kind and humble-if you are showing your abs in your
photos then you probably are not for me. I like a guy who is
confident enough not to boast or to brag. I despise hubris. If you
are of African-American descent then I will probably find you much
sexier than white guys. I have gone black and I just find it really
hard to go back :-)
**Also, if you want to collaborate on music, I love most genres so
hit me up if you like any of this: https://soundcloud.com/dmt7
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