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35 Oakland, CA Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Feb 6
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
There is worth in brevity so I am:
active, healthy, intuitive, funny, quirky, strong in many ways, empathic, direct, intense, laid-back and grounded yet driven and passionate.

I value friendship, family, honesty, respect, reflection, personal evolution, philosophy, art, music, freedom of expression.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
rocking out and truly living it!!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
understanding people, traveling, resolving conflict, sports, kissing, dancing for hours on end, singing, finding the humor in a hard situation, positivity and perspective. I use to play soccer for the United States U-21 National Team and went to Wake Forest in North Carolina to play in the ACC. I have since had a few knee injuries that keeps me off the field intensely but I still love the game and plan to coach in the future. but like to still stay involved with the game and kick it around now and then. I have always try to strike a balance between my athletic and artistic self.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
vibrance, plethora of hats, vocality, smile, buff arms
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
too many to name. Nina Simone, Tribe Called Quest, Lupe Fiasco, jazz, soul, rock, hip-hop funk and blues. I simply love listening and playing music. I am a singer and believe music is the best healing medicine. If you are a musician lets play some tunes!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sun, the ocean, movement, friends and family, music, avocado and burritos (Australia does not have good mexican food and I miss Cali for this among many reasons)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to do next, what is truly important to me in this short life, will I meet the person to journey life with or have I already met them, will I have a family of my own, will I create good music and fulfill my artistic, personal and professional pursuits.
someday 'my prince will come'
how relative 'time' really is
social justice, racism and homophobia
good food and wine
good sex
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing something random
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like a variety of people. I identify as bisexual, which means that I have had sex with both men and women and not necessarily at the same time.
So, Kinsey introduced the sexuality spectrum. We are all on that spectrum and we all have our own sensualities, tastes and tendencies. I have dated both men and women in the past and have experienced the differences between them in many ways to form a unique perspective on gender and love.

I am balanced in my male/female energies and desire to meet other people who have explored these things as well. I want someone open, knows what they want, does not mess around, is deep and committed but open for adventure and personal freedom. I am still looking for my life partner and making friends along the way. I want to meet a man who is my opposite but compliments me too. I want to meet someone who expands my world. I also want a family of my own. I might be a soccer or basketball mom in the future but I do not need a mini-van cuz thats what bicycles are for!
You should message me if
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you like my profile and think we could connect in a genuine way. i've had many relationships in my life but now I am looking for a longer-term, deep connection with a grounded and loving man who is kind of a badass but doesn't know it. i still have not found my partner in crime.
Also, if you want to collaborate on music, I love most genres so hit me up if you like any of this: