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34 F Oakland, CA

I’m looking for

  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 28–46
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Aug 13
5′ 7″ (1.70m)
Body Type
Mostly vegetarian
Atheism, and laughing about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Seeing Someone
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), German (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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There is worth in brevity so I am:
active, healthy, intuitive, funny, quirky, strong in many ways, empathic, direct, intense, laid-back and grounded yet driven and passionate.

I value friendship, family, honesty, respect, reflection, personal evolution, philosophy, art, music, freedom of expression.
What I’m doing with my life
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rocking out and truly living it!!
I’m really good at
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living every moment with intention and passion.
The first things people usually notice about me
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vibrance, plethora of hats, vocality, smile, buff arms
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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too many to name. Nina Simone, Tribe Called Quest, Lupe Fiasco, jazz, soul, rock, hip-hop funk and blues. I simply love listening and playing music. I am a singer and believe music is the best healing medicine. If you are a musician lets play some tunes!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
sun, the ocean, movement, friends and family, music, avocado and burritos (Australia does not have good mexican food and I miss Cali for this among many reasons)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what I want to do next, when I will meet the person to journey life with, will I have a family of my own, will I create good music.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
doing something random
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like a variety of people. I identify as bisexual, which means that I date both sexes but it does not mean that I sleep around.
Kinsey introduced the sexuality spectrum. We are all on that spectrum and we all have our own sensualities, tastes and tendencies. I have dated both men and women in the past and have experienced the differences between them in many ways to form a unique perspective on gender and love.

I am balanced in my male/female energies and desire to meet other people who have explored these things as well. I want someone open, knows what they want, does not mess around, is deep and committed but open for adventure and personal freedom. I am still looking for my life partner and making friends along the way. I want to meet artists to expand my world.
You should message me if
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you like my profile and think we could connect in a genuine way.