If you dance contra or blues you can probably skip the rest of my profile and just go to a nearby dance to encounter me (or better yet, let me know which dance you're going to). For those of you who don't dance or who have extra time, I'll try to make this entertaining.
I'm poly, and have identified as polyamorous just long enough to figure out what it means for me. It means that I want to be honest with myself and others about how I feel, and not feel constrained by how I think I'm expected to feel. It means that there's room for more in the world than just hook-ups or marriage-potential. It means that my connection with any other person is about them, and about me. It means that I don't assume anything, and I let others tell me who they are and what they want. I'm totally willing to talk about it whether you 110% agree or you're wondering what the hell I mean.
If that sounds serious and intimidating, don't worry. Most of the time it's fine for what we both want to be, "Iono, let's get coffee and see if we like talking?"
In other news:
I radiate a variant of the higgs boson that attracts bizarre events to me rather than massive objects. Seriously, my life is consistently improbable.
I'm a feminist. That doesn't mean I'll agree with everything another feminist says. It means that I think and care about gender equality and related issues.
I'm not a scientist, but science is important to me, as are its limits.
I often dance places instead of walking, especially within coffee or gelato shops.
I think everything one does deserves an epic soundtrack.
I've been known to disagree with the majority of people about things that seem obvious and uncontroversial, like whether or not we survive going to sleep.
I am INTP by nature, but in the last 5 years I've developed my extroverted and judging secondary personality traits quite a bit.
I'm actually more ignostic than agnostic, but that's not an option.
I am superciliously silly, a priori, and sorcerous.
Now in Japanese!
Na naaa na na na naa na naa na na katamari damacy...
I'm also an attorney. I've done a fair amount of working for other people, but it's invariably frustrating, so right now I'm solo-practicing, which is scary and exciting. I really didn't expect to end up in the private practice of law, but so far it's more satisfying than I'd imagined.
I have a particular interests in intellectual property and tech policy stuff. I care about people's access to information and laws that actually encourage people to be creative. I have strong opinions on net neutrality, telecom consolidation, and fair use.
I also manage a six-person intentional community that hosts awesome dance parties and regular community service events. This in turn connects me to a lot of projects and the city-wide social entrepreneurship scene.
If law-type things don't pan out, though, I'll go with my original plan to be Archmage of Earthsea.
I go blues dancing regularly, and organize dances in the area, including fusion dancing at my house. I also go contra dancing fairly often, and have some experience with ballroom, salsa, and tango. I go to lindy hop dances from time to time and pretend I know what I'm doing.
I play piano (for which it turns out having big hands is useful), ukulele (for which having big hands just looks silly), guitar (his name is Ignacio), and larynx. Sometimes I also write songs (here's one: http://bryansuchenski.bandcamp.com/track/street-light).
I'm really good at games, both digital and non-digital. When I'm feeling productive I can also make them (here's one I made to accompany my friend's 16-bit music: http://www.silentellipsis.com/battlecastle/).
I can draw/paint/make stuff. I once co-wrote and edited a 75-minute film. Joyce Carol Oates once said that a story I wrote exhibited a "masterful style" (but then she also said meaner things to me). I can fence, know how to wield a katana, and can kick above your head (unless you're really tall), though these skills are rarely called upon since no one seems to want to attack me.
I am not really good at navigation, however. When I walk out of a building, I tend to just walk in a totally random direction and don't stop to consider where I'm going until a few blocks later. If I have the chance to see a map, or I'm in a grid-based city, I'll be fine.
Now in Japanese!
Now in Rumi-ese!
I am almost as awake as Shams Tebriz.
Or maybe that I'm carrying a black ukulele around. Or a guitar. Or a housemate.
Also, modernist poetry and haiku (kawazu tobikomu...if you know what I mean).
b) Koyaanisqatsi, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Ran (or anything by Kurosawa, for that matter), Fallen Angels, Princess Mononoke, Ghost in the Shell, Pan's Labyrinth, The Life of Brian, Legend of Drunken Master, Ghostbusters.
Warning: I have an older sibling who is a film studies professor, so I'm acquainted with some disturbingly high-brow movies. That said, you can probably convince me to watch whatever.
c) Babylon 5, Arrested Development, Firefly, Dr. Horrible, Evangelion, Last Week Tonight, Doctor Who (the David Tennant seasons), Game of Thrones, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Silicon Valley (I totally lived half the scenes on that show).
Unless they mean Broadway shows, in which case probably Spring Awakening and Phantom.
d) Billy Joel. Also Radiohead, Philip Glass, Peter Gabriel, Rachmaninoff, Death Cab for Cutie, Sigur Ros, Ben Folds, Regina Spektor, The Swell Season, The Decemberists, The Civil Wars, Beirut, Nobuo Uematsu, The Protomen, The Beatles, William Shatner, other stuff (these lists have a dangerous probability of getting unreadably long, so I'm trying to restrain myself).
e) I feel like I'm gradually becoming vegetarian. There isn't a powerful push behind it - I'm just happier when I eat more vegetables and less meat. More specifically, the important foods are: hummus, cheese, mushrooms, nuts (especially pecans & walnuts), nut-butters, Singapore noodles, other kinds of noodles, chocolate, strawberry shortcake, onions, kale, spinach, roasted peppers, and any fruit except watermelon (I know it's weird, but it's one of the only foods I'm averse to). You could put most of those things into one big pot and I'd be super excited. I do spicy.
As to drinks, I like many varieties of milk (almond/soy/cow), juice, and water. I really like water. I drink beer/cider/wine, but mostly on social occasions. I don't usually like soda (and hate diet sodas), but I make an exception for Virgil's Rootbeer, which I think includes angel's sweat as an ingredient.
f) Why is there no games section? I'm adding one: Chrono Trigger, Final Fantasy (IV, VI, Tactics), Rock Band, The Elder Scrolls (Oblivion, Skyrim), Sid Meier's Alpha Centauri, Ascendancy, Castlevania: Symphony of the Night, Super Metroid, Shadow of the Colossus, Xenogears, Secret of Mana, Starcraft, Megaman (2 particularly), Minecraft, League of Legends, Dark Souls, Puzzle Quest, One Finger Death Punch.
Non-digital games: Dungeons & Dragons (3.5, 5e, PF), Shadowrun (3e), Magic: The Gathering, Nobilis, Waving Hands (Warlocks), Catan, Carcassonne, Dominion, Ascension. Chess is pretty cool.
Admittedly, that only happened once, and I think it was on a Monday morning, but it is the type of thing I would do on a Friday night when the opportunity presented itself.
I'm a lucid dreamer, or often have been.
As to the kind of person I'll respond to, these attributes help:
-You're cute. This can mean a huge range of things, so there's no particular appearance to aim for, as long as you rock it.
-You dance. This is not strictly necessary (I've met my share of awesome muggles), but is worth major bonus points.
-You're smart. This can mean bookish, intuitive, witty, logical, or cunning. If you can't think on your feet, then you have to sit or lie down all the time, and that can get old.
-You're confident. Say what you think. Disagree with me, especially if I'm wrong.
-You're kind of a nerd. Again, many flavors accepted, but if you would never contemplate watching a sci-fi show or playing a board game, I'll think you're too narrow.
-You can surprise me. If I could explain how to do this, it wouldn't be surprising anymore.
Other reasons to message me:
-You need me to help you with a transdimensional horse infestation
-You're the ghost of Akira Kurosawa
-You want to offer me a job where the word "awesome" appears in my title
-You make music
-You're a dragon, or a Mother of Dragons
-You're affiliated with a community-minded institution that wants to ally with mine and increase the power of your benevolent empire
-You want to go to the Philadelphia Museum of Art with me, for free! Seriously, I got a dual-membership for Christmas and do not take advantage of it nearly often enough.
I know this profile is long. That's to scare away people who don't like words.