To me okcupid is a twofold opportunity we either make it or break it. I do not wish to offend or hurt anyone's feelings but this is about each of us and our individual hopes and dreams. So with that being said, I must be selective in choosing finding someone who is my match, funny, similar in age, has same tastes and values as well as goals.
The upside to the dating sites it reminds me of facebook so it can be addicting.
The type of people I find interesting are those guys who work on the rigs, welders, construction basically crafts man working with hands and their heads. I also surround myself with people who are motivated, stay healthy in mind, body and soul and are ambitious. I am selective but not a snob. I have the experiences to know what I want and what I do not want.