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31 Toronto, Ontario, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 20–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 10:00pm
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Aquarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Politics / Government
Rather not say
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Bengali (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am an ardent political junkie who loves arguments and intelligent discussions, especially around 4:20 in the afternoon.

I'm full of puns, cheesy jokes and Simpsons quotes. You've been warned.

I am a staunch feminist and a strong believer in social justice, anti-oppression and creating safe spaces.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
After 11 years in the Nation's Capital, I have moved back to my home town for an awesome job in the east end.

That and getting used to the fact that things stay open past 8 here.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
-Respecting consent
-Creating safe space
-Checking privilege
-Obscure trivia
-Telling long stories that don't go anywhere, like the time I went to Shelbyville with an onion on my belt.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
"Is that the guy from [enter any brown celebrity]."
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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-"The New Jim Crow: Mass Incarceration In The Age of Colorblindness" by Michelle Alexander
-"Black Against Empire: The History and Politics of the Black Panther Party" by Joshua Bloom and Waldo E. Martin
-"The Kite Runner" by Khaled Hosseini
-"Storming the Pink Palace" by Patrick Monahan
-""The Financial Lives of the Poets" by Jess Walters
-"Rae Days" by Thomas Walkhom

"Last Week Tonight"
"Daily Show"
"Breaking Bad"
"Power and Politics"
"Orange Is the New Black"
"Better Call Saul"
"The Simpsons"
"Bob's Burger"
"Homeland" (though, I admit that's a guilty pleasure that requires me turn off my critical thinking and overlook blatant racism and jingosim)

The Coup
Dead Kennedys
The Clash
Dead Prez
Bob Dylan
Neil Young
A Tribe Called Quest
A Tribe Called Red
Big Pun
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
-My Metropass
-Intelligent conversations
-The Economist
-Left wing politics
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
-Fighting the patriarchy
-Challenging gender norms and expectations
-How to beat Conservatives
-How DO they get the caramel in a Caramilk bar?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Drinking cheap beers with friends at our favourite dive bar.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I saw "Dude, Where's My Car?" in theater.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
-You like beer, meeting at 4:20 and smashing the patriarchy.
-You're able to write in complete sentence.
-You're open-minded and interested in a very casual kind of thing